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Re: ‘People You May Know’ helped Facebook grow exponentially

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They kept sending me "do you know [person I probably don't know]" as notifications on my phone! This was the last straw that made me delete the app and my account entirely a few years ago. One of the big annoyances in life is being notified or bugged about something I don't need to be notified about. This keeps getting worse with modern tech all the time which has slowly led me to stop using anything I don't have ful…

>This was the last straw that made me delete the app and my account entirely a few years ago. Why not just disable notifications, or just uninstall the app without deleting your account? Facebook can still be of use to you without you being of use to it. I've long used Facebook only for messaging and managing events because it's an effective and ubiquitous platform for both of these things.

Why not just disable notifications

Possibly because some combination of his device/platform/Facebook didn't honor his request after a while. At one time it wasn't unheard of for an app to self-update and reset notifications and other settings.

or just uninstall the app without deleting your account

Revenge, probably. And/or to punish FB microscopically, but in the only way we can.

I've long used Facebook only for messaging and managing events because it's an effective and ubiquitous platform for both of these things.

Good for you. Not everyone lives the same life that you do.

Re: ‘People You May Know’ helped Facebook grow exponentially

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

The first and last must just be geolocation based, right? Like, these two people are in a room together every X day for Y hours... they probably know each other. The sperm donor guy, though... facial recognition? No idea.

More likely adress book / phone contacts import.

The geo thing is really happening.

Re: ‘People You May Know’ helped Facebook grow exponentially

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This quote from Zuckerberg is something else: > “We don’t view your experience with the product as a single-player game,” he says. Yes, in the short run, some users might benefit more than others from PYMK friending. But, he contends, all users will benefit if everyone they know winds up on Facebook. We should think of PYMK as kind of a “community tax policy,” he says. Or a redistribution of wealth. “If you’re ramped…

I know this might be off topic but a billionaire making a comparison to wealth redistribution almost reads like a parody to me.

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

The first and last must just be geolocation based, right? Like, these two people are in a room together every X day for Y hours... they probably know each other. The sperm donor guy, though... facial recognition? No idea.

More likely adress book / phone contacts import.

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Re: ‘People You May Know’ helped Facebook grow exponentially

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Paywalled so I'll just barf my opinion about my feelings on that feature. I get recommended the most random people who are friends-of-friends I've never met. There have been so many bad suggestions that I assume they're all wrong. I guess everyone else had the complete opposite experience based on the article title

It is, or was, much more relevant about a decade ago when Facebook was still the de facto online gathering place for young people. In college, for me, the People You May Know feed was uncanny in how it suggested people that I had met in class or at a party.

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

More likely adress book / phone contacts import.

The geo thing is really happening.

I also have the theory that they are using WiFi names / AP MAC addresses as well. If you happen to be connected to the same private WiFi network, you probably know each other.

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This quote from Zuckerberg is something else: > “We don’t view your experience with the product as a single-player game,” he says. Yes, in the short run, some users might benefit more than others from PYMK friending. But, he contends, all users will benefit if everyone they know winds up on Facebook. We should think of PYMK as kind of a “community tax policy,” he says. Or a redistribution of wealth. “If you’re ramped…

I know this might be off topic but a billionaire making a comparison to wealth redistribution almost reads like a parody to me.

The same billionaire who spends tens of millions of dollars bulldozing houses around his in order to increase his privacy,† then tells the commoners that wanting privacy isn't normal.††

https://www.sfgate.com/tech/article/Zuckerberg-to-raze-4-hou...

†† https://www.huffpost.com/entry/facebooks-zuckerberg-the_n_41...

Re: ‘People You May Know’ helped Facebook grow exponentially

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They kept sending me "do you know [person I probably don't know]" as notifications on my phone! This was the last straw that made me delete the app and my account entirely a few years ago. One of the big annoyances in life is being notified or bugged about something I don't need to be notified about. This keeps getting worse with modern tech all the time which has slowly led me to stop using anything I don't have ful…

If only that applied to everyone. Most people will get ten crappy notifications with one good one and go "Oh, well, not too bad." I think I used the 'People You May Know' feature a bit when I first joined but, as time went on, it really just became "This one guy who once worked at the same place as you and maybe knows someone you know". These algorithms are very smart and that's their problem - they overestimate the…

A good % of those were clearly people you are not friend with who had simply looked @ your profile. The fb algorithm chooses the ones that rarely log, to receive those as notifications. So you get addicted. Example: ‘that woman/man has probably looked @ my profile, I need to open the app and see whe she/he is’ I quitted too, what a wise choice!

Re: ‘People You May Know’ helped Facebook grow exponentially

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

If only that applied to everyone. Most people will get ten crappy notifications with one good one and go "Oh, well, not too bad." I think I used the 'People You May Know' feature a bit when I first joined but, as time went on, it really just became "This one guy who once worked at the same place as you and maybe knows someone you know". These algorithms are very smart and that's their problem - they overestimate the…

A normal human can sustain relation with 40 relatives, 150 friends and 1000 acquittances. FB algos are (deliberately) tuned for twice those numbers.

I understand your point but honestly humans are varied. Some can handle more some less. People self regulate.

Re: ‘People You May Know’ helped Facebook grow exponentially

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

I know this might be off topic but a billionaire making a comparison to wealth redistribution almost reads like a parody to me.

The same billionaire who spends tens of millions of dollars bulldozing houses around his in order to increase his privacy,† then tells the commoners that wanting privacy isn't normal.†† † https://www.sfgate.com/tech/article/Zuckerberg-to-raze-4-hou... †† https://www.huffpost.com/entry/facebooks-zuckerberg-the_n_41...

Physical privacy vs virtual privacy are two very different things, so it's disingenuous to pretend they are exactly the same.
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