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Re: 1-on-1 meeting questions

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My 1on1's at a 100k+ international corporation always went like this: Manager: so how's it going? Me: great Manager: any issues? anything you want to discuss? Me: everything is fantastic! I'm very happy with my job :D Manager: cool cool... well let's do this again next month. Me: yay! I don't want someone in a similar situation like I was to get inspired by lists like these and go into their next 1on1 wrecking havoc…

What a strange, helpless way to look at the world. Employment is not a boss->servant relationship, it's a relationship where both parties gain something. You offer a service, and they pay for that. End of story. They act out? Then you find someone else who needs your services. As a programmer myself, I'm in this great position where there is a shortage of good developers, and plenty of companies searching for good de…

> “I'm going in there with "Hey, fix your shit or I'll have a new job next week that pays more from day 1, and you will search the next 6 months for my replacement and train that person another 6 months before (s)he's somewhat productive."”

What a strange, toxic way to look at the world.

We’re just people! People who are hopefully working at a company that has a mission they believe in, who are trying to do the best work they can.

Sometimes a manager sucks, sometimes the employee sucks, but there’s never a single person to blame, nor is it up to a single person to “figure shit out.”

The more people realize that we’re all in this together, the better.

And if you’re jaded about thinking in that way, you’re just not at the right company.

Re: 1-on-1 meeting questions

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My one on one conversations with my boss became significantly more productive when we started just going and grabbing a cup of coffee for them. It's a more social setting, which puts you on footing to actually have a conversation. The previous six years to that, my boss would ask the same canned questions and I would give the same canned answers. The whole process would take about three minutes and nothing would be g…

I'll go take a walk and sometimes have lunch with people, sometimes I get the same canned responses.

Sounds like they don't trust you.

It's the same with my manager. People don't tell him what they really think, because by experience we know it's not going to have a positive impact, and might negatively impact our raises.

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