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Ask HN: Why won't you quit a job you hate?

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Re: Ask HN: Why won't you quit a job you hate?

#11

"Bored" != "hate". If you're getting good money, and your management is relatively sane, and you like the people you work with, think twice before you leave. I've been around enough to know that you can easily wind up in a much worse situation.

You haven't lived until you've had a psychopath as a boss and for whatever reason they've decided they don't like you. Do you feel lucky?

Been there & got the scars

Re: Ask HN: Why won't you quit a job you hate?

#12

Honestly? The job search + interview process is way too painful. I feel like I'm a good problem solver, I've made really good impact at the jobs I've been at but landing jobs is difficult for me. I tend to stick around til the job is more painful than interviewing.

Had a similar experience especially as I age and moved farther from the "Big city" where the cool jobs are and I refuse to commute that far

Re: Ask HN: Why won't you quit a job you hate?

#13

"Bored" != "hate". If you're getting good money, and your management is relatively sane, and you like the people you work with, think twice before you leave. I've been around enough to know that you can easily wind up in a much worse situation.

Yes, sometimes people can say that they want one thing, but in reality they probably don't.

My theory was that there can be some complex set of criteria, including the emotional match, that can determine a better job fit for each person. The challenge here is to determine that set, and develop an assessment tool for both the job seeker and the company/team.

Re: Ask HN: Why won't you quit a job you hate?

#14

"Bored" != "hate". If you're getting good money, and your management is relatively sane, and you like the people you work with, think twice before you leave. I've been around enough to know that you can easily wind up in a much worse situation.

Yes, sometimes people can say that they want one thing, but in reality they probably don't. My theory was that there can be some complex set of criteria, including the emotional match, that can determine a better job fit for each person. The challenge here is to determine that set, and develop an assessment tool for both the job seeker and the company/team.

That's an interesting idea. You'd probably need a psychologist to come up with the questionnaire and then maybe you could convince a company to let you run the study. You'd need paired feedback to0... I guess you could ask people to reveal their performance evals anonymously but that might undervalue employee-employer fit. You'd probably want to have these ranked by some outside metric of each company's success. Someone must've already done this, if not it'd be a good research project for a psychology or business school grad student. Sounds like a worthwhile YC startup. Maybe something like "work at a startup" could factor in or run this type of study too.

Re: Ask HN: Why won't you quit a job you hate?

#16
If you read any articles about VCs you'll note that most startups fail and even when they don't the multiple investment rounds dilute any stock you might have been granted. They don't call the rare exceptions "unicorns" for nothing.

Besides, it's not salary that is the trap, but Lifestyle. Most people's lifestyles expand to consume their increasing salaries, so taking even a reasonable pay-cut means big changes to lifestyle ... and the loss of bragging rights of working for one of the FAANGs.

Re: Ask HN: Why won't you quit a job you hate?

#17
Nah, the whole point of working for someone else is it lowers your own risk, have a good salary and a stable income. If mission and purpose is that important, might as well accept the full risk and work on your own idea. Assuming you have the qualifications to get a FAANG job, taking a pay cut to burn yourself out at a start-up where you get peanuts when the start-up sells just seems like the worst of both worlds.

Re: Ask HN: Why won't you quit a job you hate?

#18

Define "small paycut." Mid level engineers at FB and its ilk are pulling in 400k+ including RSUs and bonus. You'd be hard pressed to get even a very senior position at a small startup that pays even half that in real cash.

Let's say 20-30% discount on salary and potentially a bigger equity upside than a big CO. I haven't seen startup giving out cash bonuses.

Heh... Potentially bigger upside, but 99.9999999999% chance they're worth nothing. So, risk adjusted, more than a 50% paycut.

No thanks.

Re: Ask HN: Why won't you quit a job you hate?

#20
I work for a startup, but I'm bored.

The biggest hurdle to overcome when wanting to switch jobs, for me and for all the people I know, is going through the interview process.

This isn't the sort of discussion you're looking for.

But I'd say for most people who are bored at work, working on a CRUD app in a startup isn't going to be intellectually stimulating.

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