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A singer apologized, closed his eyes, dropped his head and died onstage

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Re: A singer apologized, closed his eyes, dropped his head and died onstage

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post #116

Earlier quoted context omitted.

> "Sudden Cardiac Arrest": "In over half of the cases, however, sudden cardiac arrest occurs without prior symptoms." Like, the pump just stops. You'd feel faint and then be unconscious. What a wonderful way to die. No sickness, no disability, no pain. Just turn off when the time comes. I wish everybody could die this way. Not too early preferably.

Speaking as somebody who lost a loved one this way ... it's very hard on the family. I often wonder about my father's last moments ... did he know what was happening? Did he have any regrets, or any last things he wanted to say to people? For us as a family it was like a bomb going off, and we spent many many years cleaning up the debris, and in some ways nearly two decades later we still are. There are plenty worse…

> I often wonder about my father's last moments ... did he know what was happening?

It's possible that he had no warning whatsoever before the event. From another article[1], a person who survived said he had no warning or memory of the event.

[1] https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-scotland-51181230?sa=X&ved=2ahUK...

Re: A singer apologized, closed his eyes, dropped his head and died onstage

#152

Strange to see so many comments praising the way this guy died. Do people really want to die suddenly in front of strangers without any time to prepare and get your house in order? So many here say that's the way they want to go, but that's hard to believe. Personally, I'd rather be given a few months or years notice so that I can prepare.

Few of us will decide, many of us will die in pain. You could die any day so prepare now.

Re: A singer apologized, closed his eyes, dropped his head and died onstage

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post #149

Condolences to his family and friends, but for an entertainer, I can think of no better thing that you remember last in the world, and that is to be entertaining people and to be in the middle of your craft when the reaper taps you on the shoulder. Somehow, me collapsing on my keyboard mid code doesn't seem all that great way to go. I will have to get another passion that I am mid stream in and enjoying life to the m…

> I can think of no better thing that you remember last in the world. . . He doesn't remember dying.

I imagine he meant to write "experience last in the world?"

Re: A singer apologized, closed his eyes, dropped his head and died onstage

#155
post #116

Earlier quoted context omitted.

> "Sudden Cardiac Arrest": "In over half of the cases, however, sudden cardiac arrest occurs without prior symptoms." Like, the pump just stops. You'd feel faint and then be unconscious. What a wonderful way to die. No sickness, no disability, no pain. Just turn off when the time comes. I wish everybody could die this way. Not too early preferably.

Speaking as somebody who lost a loved one this way ... it's very hard on the family. I often wonder about my father's last moments ... did he know what was happening? Did he have any regrets, or any last things he wanted to say to people? For us as a family it was like a bomb going off, and we spent many many years cleaning up the debris, and in some ways nearly two decades later we still are. There are plenty worse…

I imagine it depends on the age/life circumstance of the person dying too. You didn't say, but sounds like your father was fairly young? I'm sorry.

My grandfather died this way, in his 80s, healthy and active up to then... very different thing.

Re: A singer apologized, closed his eyes, dropped his head and died onstage

#156

Strange to see so many comments praising the way this guy died. Do people really want to die suddenly in front of strangers without any time to prepare and get your house in order? So many here say that's the way they want to go, but that's hard to believe. Personally, I'd rather be given a few months or years notice so that I can prepare.

I'd love to go out playing music.

Re: A singer apologized, closed his eyes, dropped his head and died onstage

#157
post #116

Earlier quoted context omitted.

> "Sudden Cardiac Arrest": "In over half of the cases, however, sudden cardiac arrest occurs without prior symptoms." Like, the pump just stops. You'd feel faint and then be unconscious. What a wonderful way to die. No sickness, no disability, no pain. Just turn off when the time comes. I wish everybody could die this way. Not too early preferably.

Speaking as somebody who lost a loved one this way ... it's very hard on the family. I often wonder about my father's last moments ... did he know what was happening? Did he have any regrets, or any last things he wanted to say to people? For us as a family it was like a bomb going off, and we spent many many years cleaning up the debris, and in some ways nearly two decades later we still are. There are plenty worse…

My condolences. If I can just add two cents through - my father spent the last few months of his life dying from cancer, with the final week being nothing but a morphine-induced coma, with his entire body slowly shutting down, him only waking up every now and then to beg for some water(Which he couldn't drink anyway). It was the most horrendous experience I can imagine anyone going through, both for himself and for us as the family. If I had a choice I'd much rather just die than go through this hell. It would have been much easier on us all as well, those days spent sitting next to his bed and knowing that no, it won't get any better and we can't help in any way, will haunt me to the end of my days.

Re: A singer apologized, closed his eyes, dropped his head and died onstage

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post #149

Condolences to his family and friends, but for an entertainer, I can think of no better thing that you remember last in the world, and that is to be entertaining people and to be in the middle of your craft when the reaper taps you on the shoulder. Somehow, me collapsing on my keyboard mid code doesn't seem all that great way to go. I will have to get another passion that I am mid stream in and enjoying life to the m…

> I can think of no better thing that you remember last in the world. . . He doesn't remember dying.

I'm not sure we can know that.

Re: A singer apologized, closed his eyes, dropped his head and died onstage

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post #149

Condolences to his family and friends, but for an entertainer, I can think of no better thing that you remember last in the world, and that is to be entertaining people and to be in the middle of your craft when the reaper taps you on the shoulder. Somehow, me collapsing on my keyboard mid code doesn't seem all that great way to go. I will have to get another passion that I am mid stream in and enjoying life to the m…

> I can think of no better thing that you remember last in the world. . . He doesn't remember dying.

Indeed, short-term memory isn't preserved after death.

Re: A singer apologized, closed his eyes, dropped his head and died onstage

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post #149

Condolences to his family and friends, but for an entertainer, I can think of no better thing that you remember last in the world, and that is to be entertaining people and to be in the middle of your craft when the reaper taps you on the shoulder. Somehow, me collapsing on my keyboard mid code doesn't seem all that great way to go. I will have to get another passion that I am mid stream in and enjoying life to the m…

> I can think of no better thing that you remember last in the world. . . He doesn't remember dying.

How about a bit of decorum here? I appreciate that you have your thoughts on death, but you should realize that they are your own and may not match others'. The comment you replied to has another reply of someone that was close to this singer, and there may be others around.

You likely knew what the author of the comment you replied to was implying, which just tells me you're looking to have a debate, or possibly even troll. Now is not the time for a theological debate on the afterlife.

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