Earlier quoted context omitted.
Some background checks may reveal to your next employer that you had these jobs, even for a very short period of time.
Yeah, you may as well list it and if asked respond honestly. It wasn't a good fit/the role didn't match the job description, etc.
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#23I'm gonna play devil's advocate here and point out that apparently this is the kind of place where people can in fact fall asleep during work hours, even during calls. That opens up a lot of possibilities. How about doing the bare minimum and working on bettering your skills on your own? Or even do some side hustle?
A side hustle on company time and equipment? That might not be as good an idea as you portray!
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#25Eject, as long as this isn't going to add to an existing pattern in your employment history.
People in the position to hire have more than likely been in the situation where they were sold a bill of goods, gotten on the job, and had to make the same choice.
But if this is going to be, say the third short term gig in a row, then it's going to be a hard sell that the problem has been the employers and not you.
Assuming it's the former, when it comes time to talk to other potential employers and interviewers, state the scenario factually and without rancor. "I was told during the recruiting process that we would be writing the platform in Node, turns out we were hand punching Fortran cards."
Edit (hit submit too soon): if it's the latter, then you need to stick it out for at least 12 months. There are some great comments in the thread about changing the culture, etc. I would add to those to shift your mentality from "this is my employer" to "this is a client for whom I'm going to do the best work I can for 12 months." I can yap a lot more about that shift but if you can create a mental firewall between you and the employer and minimize emotional engagement, doing the time will be easier. :)
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#26I'd quit if you can. Pay attention to the red flags.
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#28If you feel like there's still potential with the company you're at, be straight with your manager and tell them how you're feeling diplomatically. Otherwise, I'd start sending feelers out elsewhere.
Assuming you left your previous job on good terms and want to go back, reach back out! I've been at companies where people boomeranged back ranging from a few months to a week. It's not as uncommon as you think.
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#29> How long do I stick it out before looking elsewhere or even returning to my last job as I left on good terms? Eject, as long as this isn't going to add to an existing pattern in your employment history. People in the position to hire have more than likely been in the situation where they were sold a bill of goods, gotten on the job, and had to make the same choice. But if this is going to be, say the third short te…
If the pay is substantial you should definitely give it another 6 months. I think as workers in general, that we should evaluate the companies and its leaders annually the same way they evaluate us. Hope this helps.