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Re: Ask HN: Joining Big Tech in One’s 40s

#31
Not an issue. I'm older than you by a few years and I'm looking for a new job. I have 5 onsites lined up with more to come. Age hasn't been an issue except for expectations at places like Google that want to interview and hire me at L6+ level which I know I'm not good enough for, hence why I was never hired. Otherwise I'm not concerned... yet.

I am an IC so I make sure my code is top notch, which means I need to LC for weeks before I'm ready for the onsites.

Re: Ask HN: Joining Big Tech in One’s 40s

#32
post #3

That's a pretty broad question, isn't it? Besides your age and that you used to work at startups and dislike the stress, there isn't much to go on for guidance. Who knows if you're suited for management, would be better as a code monkey, or what skills you need to brush up on?

Not to be disrespectful, but your response sounds like those arrogant Stack Overflow responses that are simply not helpful. There is enough in his question for anyone to provide a proper answer.

> Not to be disrespectful

It's okay to be disrespectful. It's not okay to preface that disrespect with an overtly false disclaimer.

Re: Ask HN: Joining Big Tech in One’s 40s

#33
post #10

"I can still keep up coding, but should I do that, or try for management?" HN can't answer this for you. Which do you prefer?

I think the unspoken question is whether it is more prudent for a person of this age to pursue an individual contributor role or a role in the management track. Take this for what it's worth, but anecdotally I've heard a lot of programmers find that once they hit this age, opportunities as an individual contributor are more limited. So if the goal is to get a stable job at a large tech company, then the question is w…

I am a great people manager, but it's subject to the monkey in the middle problem, which I find stressful.

Re: Ask HN: Joining Big Tech in One’s 40s

#34

Same age, I recently interviewed at two FAANG companies. Mostly algorithms and system design interviews. I thought I did pretty well (something like 3 very good interviews, 1 good, and 1 ok). In both cases, the conclusion was that my results were good enough for an L4 position, but they wouldn't hire me for less than L5. (Why not, I'd be happy as an L4...). Also, I found the interview process pretty random and arbitr…

>In both cases, the conclusion was that my results were good enough for an L4 position, but they wouldn't hire me for less than L5. (Why not, I'd be happy as an L4...). Can you elaborate on this? Were you interviewing specifically for L5 roles? I wonder if years of experience or even achievements can be used against a candidate by raising the bar so to speak. Maybe one is a L5 at their current company but only a L4 e…

I was applying for a software engineering position. No particular level was specified. After the interviews, the recruiter basically told me that they couldn't make me an offer for a L4 position, considering my experience (I think he mentioned 7 years of experience). Interestingly, I had the exact same explanation at two different companies.

A year later a different recruiter from the same company contacted me again to ask me to re-interview. Then he contacted the recruiter from one year ago to see if I had to retake the initial phone interview, or go directly on site. After discussing with her, he told me that they don't have currently an L5 position open, and that he would be contact me again in a few months (which he didn't).

Re: Ask HN: Joining Big Tech in One’s 40s

#35
I'm a Sr Manager at a FAANG company (and I started here in my 40s). My direct reports include other SDMs, senior product managers, and staff/principal engineers.

You mention "trying" for management. If you haven't previously managed people, then you probably won't be able to get a good SDM role directly. Instead, your best path would be to be hired as an SDE, demonstrate strong managerial bones (mentorship, communication, process orientation), and then transition to SDM after a few years.

If you've mostly been an engineer, then you may want to learn more about what's expected from different levels of engineer so you can determine, realistically, where your experience will be sufficient, and where there will be gap.

Re: Ask HN: Joining Big Tech in One’s 40s

#37
post #3

That's a pretty broad question, isn't it? Besides your age and that you used to work at startups and dislike the stress, there isn't much to go on for guidance. Who knows if you're suited for management, would be better as a code monkey, or what skills you need to brush up on?

Not to be disrespectful, but your response sounds like those arrogant Stack Overflow responses that are simply not helpful. There is enough in his question for anyone to provide a proper answer.

The only question (and it appears to be the majority of the responses here) that looks like you can answer well is if other people have done what he's considering doing. Maybe that's the discussion he's looking for; the comments to that affect are definitely good.

The remaining questions regarding coding vs. management or what skills to 'brush up on' are very person-dependent beyond general platitudes. Sure, discussions can be had, but it kind of depends on what he wants.

Re: Ask HN: Joining Big Tech in One’s 40s

#38
I don't think age really has much to do with it. Apart from having more experience, joining somewhere in your 40s is pretty much like joining somewhere in your 30s. If you want to code, code. If you want to manage, manage. But don't decide based on age.

42 at MS

Re: Ask HN: Joining Big Tech in One’s 40s

#39
Ageism is out in SV, because the biggest perpetrators grew up. Plus experience is worth a lot of money. If you're young or old, don't listen to those who say you can't do something. It's just one more form of resistance that successful people have to plow through.

Re: Ask HN: Joining Big Tech in One’s 40s

#40
post #35

I'm a Sr Manager at a FAANG company (and I started here in my 40s). My direct reports include other SDMs, senior product managers, and staff/principal engineers. You mention "trying" for management. If you haven't previously managed people, then you probably won't be able to get a good SDM role directly. Instead, your best path would be to be hired as an SDE, demonstrate strong managerial bones (mentorship, communica…

> You mention "trying" for management. If you haven't previously managed people, then you probably won't be able to get a good SDM role directly.

This is very true. No company I’ve interviewed with so far was willing to hire a manager who hasn’t previously managed people.

> Instead, your best path would be to be hired as an SDE, demonstrate strong managerial bones

I’ve tried this strategy a number of times and I wish it was that straightforward. Usually, even internal management roles are set aside for people who have already managed people before. So, you’ll take the time to be an outstanding IC, develop credibility with the team and good communication skills, focus on process building... then finally the workload grows to the point where you need more than yourself and you think “now is my chance!” You go to your manager and propose to hire a few people under you and SURPRISE he already hired an experienced manager who will have three reports including you! Bummer!

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