The thing that really worked for me was I only ever buy in person with cash. I almost never use my debit card in person. This simple thing changed my relationship with what I buy. Obviously my mortgage and other monthly payments are direct debit but unless the purchase is several hundred Euros or more I will pay in cash. I always have €200 in cash on me which is enough to cover me at least a week. Then whatever I hav…
I might have recommended this for someone in college in 2000 but this is unrealistic for any reasonable person. Paying cash for a TV at a physical store?!
My comment about buying the TV was related to not feeling guilty spending several thousand Euros on a TV because we live off a single salary therefore saving it.
What exactly do you find "unrealistic" about using cash over a debit card for day to day purchases like lunch, grocery shopping and such? This is where I find I "lost" most of my money. Lots of 'invisible' (to me at least) purchases could easily suck over €1000 a month from my account alone. Using cash forces me to think about small but frequent purchases. Looking at my previous spending patterns I save between €350-400 a month by using cash over my debit card. With all of the other changes I have made regarding diet that goes up to over €500. And remember this is just my spending. My wife also saves several hundred by using cash over her card as well as she had fallen into the same trap as I of blindly buying with card and not thinking (much) about what it cost.
Obviously a large purchase I do with a credit card for the added protection but I rarely make large (>€100) purchases.