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Ask HN: Why the Hate?
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#12What planet are you from? Are you high? This is a joke? I tell you this. Some things put hate in your heart. And you go forward 10 years, 5 deployments, divorced, kids are no where near you. And your alone. I am the hater. I hate what I have become. I used to be so different. And I forced myself to enlist. Then saw my country “win hearts and minds” and come back and listen to the mob say there shit. I hate because I…
Calm down man, i'm just very interested by this subject because i'm doing a lots of music where im trying to spread some love because when i was in college i was used to be bullied, so im trying to help kids who are in the similar situation. But even when im trying to spread that kind of messages, there are haters so YEAH im looking for some studies or elements which explain the psychologic side of these people, im not high or crazy, i just want to learn more about the human nature.
Re: Ask HN: Why the Hate?
#13I think there are few important keywords that could facilitate OP's research on this: - moral relativism and ethical subjectivism: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moral_relativism - In-group vs. out-group
Thank you for this
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#14Honest question. What is a “hater”?
If i had to define whats a hater is i would say that its a person who are very rude and disrespectfull towards what you are trying to defend, an idea, an ideology, etc... But he will not even try to understand what you are saying, he just hate you because, for example, your personnality will bring a lots of people to you around the world, so he can be jealous of that, and hate you but for no reasons. Its my definition of a hater.
Re: Ask HN: Why the Hate?
#15What planet are you from? Are you high? This is a joke? I tell you this. Some things put hate in your heart. And you go forward 10 years, 5 deployments, divorced, kids are no where near you. And your alone. I am the hater. I hate what I have become. I used to be so different. And I forced myself to enlist. Then saw my country “win hearts and minds” and come back and listen to the mob say there shit. I hate because I…
Calm down man, i'm just very interested by this subject because i'm doing a lots of music where im trying to spread some love because when i was in college i was used to be bullied, so im trying to help kids who are in the similar situation. But even when im trying to spread that kind of messages, there are haters so YEAH im looking for some studies or elements which explain the psychologic side of these people, im n…
You just did learn more about human nature ;-)
Re: Ask HN: Why the Hate?
#16What planet are you from? Are you high? This is a joke? I tell you this. Some things put hate in your heart. And you go forward 10 years, 5 deployments, divorced, kids are no where near you. And your alone. I am the hater. I hate what I have become. I used to be so different. And I forced myself to enlist. Then saw my country “win hearts and minds” and come back and listen to the mob say there shit. I hate because I…
Calm down man, i'm just very interested by this subject because i'm doing a lots of music where im trying to spread some love because when i was in college i was used to be bullied, so im trying to help kids who are in the similar situation. But even when im trying to spread that kind of messages, there are haters so YEAH im looking for some studies or elements which explain the psychologic side of these people, im n…
I think you should take a look at the Dalai Lama. Seriosuly not trolling. I used to read alot of his books. But, Standford does studieson it. http://ccare.stanford.edu/video/his-holiness-the-dalai-lama/
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#17Because the world, for the most part, is (and always has been) a dangerous place and hate has proven to be a very useful (highly conserved through evolutionary time) adaptation to help keep small and delicate bands of our ancestors safe for one more day.
You can see this bias towards negativity easily in the structure of basic emotions. There is one positive affect (happiness) and waaaaay more negative affects (fear, anger, disgust, sadness) and only one neutral (surprise). And those negative emotions are all very distinct.
If you want more detail I can recommend over 120 hours of learning in the following (which I've watched and digested). They'll walk you through the details from the bottom to the top.
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Watch Robert Sapolsky's lectures:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLD7E21BF91F3F9683
Watch Jordan Peterson's Personality lectures:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYYJlNbV1OM&list=PL22J3VaeAB...
and his Maps of Meaning Lectures:
(or read the book or listen to the audio book)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I8Xc2_FtpHI&list=PL22J3VaeAB...
Re: Ask HN: Why the Hate?
#18Because the world, for the most part, is (and always has been) a dangerous place and hate has proven to be a very useful (highly conserved through evolutionary time) adaptation to help keep small and delicate bands of our ancestors safe for one more day. You can see this bias towards negativity easily in the structure of basic emotions. There is one positive affect (happiness) and waaaaay more negative affects (fear,…
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#19Because the world, for the most part, is (and always has been) a dangerous place and hate has proven to be a very useful (highly conserved through evolutionary time) adaptation to help keep small and delicate bands of our ancestors safe for one more day. You can see this bias towards negativity easily in the structure of basic emotions. There is one positive affect (happiness) and waaaaay more negative affects (fear,…
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Ok, but would you please stop posting unsubstantive comments to HN? You've done it a lot, and we're trying for better than that here.
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#20Because the world, for the most part, is (and always has been) a dangerous place and hate has proven to be a very useful (highly conserved through evolutionary time) adaptation to help keep small and delicate bands of our ancestors safe for one more day. You can see this bias towards negativity easily in the structure of basic emotions. There is one positive affect (happiness) and waaaaay more negative affects (fear,…
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Convince me.