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Men View Their Ex-Partners More Favorably Than Women Do: Study

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>biological genders The word you're looking for is "sex." There's no such thing as a "biological gender."

There are not even genders on humans, just sex.

I honestly can't tell if you're joking. If you're serious, do you not believe there's a meaningful distinction between a person's biological sex at birth and the degree to which they self-identify with social constructs of masculinity and femininity?

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That's incorrect.

It’s worth considering that although the absolute incidence of violence female->male is higher, common sense dictates that the incidence of terrifying and potentially seriously injurious violence is much higher male->female, which is why more concern is directed at it.

"common sense" isn't the best justification, as plenty of studies provide empirical evidence of exactly that. Iirc there's near parity in general IPV but something like a 2:1 ratio in grievous bodily harm, with even higher ratios when it comes to outright murder.

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Lol probably because they realize after the fact they really didn't appreciate what they had when they had it. And Women gain self esteem after they get out of a relationship where someone beats down their ego so the more they regain it the more they understand how emotionally abusive the relationship was. Just SAYIN!

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>biological genders The word you're looking for is "sex." There's no such thing as a "biological gender."

"a term for a grammatical subclass to join sex in referring to either of the two primary biological forms of a species" Don't try to rewrite grammar to fit trends. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/gender

It's not a trend, it's an increase in scientific understanding.

Language is fluid, or we would all be speaking some variant of old German on this forum (try reading Beowulf in the original).

It's not grammar, it's semantics.

Words are social. When one person tries to rewrite the meaning of a word, unless they have significant social clout they are just going to be misunderstood. When many people rewrite the meaning of a word, they change the meaning of that word.

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One of the huge advantages of being a programmer is not having to deal with women on a daily basis. I’d be extremely happy if the female ratio was 0% but luckily it’s low enough that it doesn’t bother me.

Edit: flagging a personal opinion, right.

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In the first paragraph you're asking for causal explanation. Then in the second paragraph you're dishing out a bunch of potential causal explanations as confounders. Some researchers would deem it over-reaching to dish out causal explanations willy nilly. Most of those questions should be relegated to follow-up studies or a BRIEF mention in the discussion section. It's perfectly okay science to simply observe a pheno…

If you don't have the causal explanations then you cannot generalize beyond the population you sampled. What does that mean? That the correct conclusion to draw is very narrow: Men View Their Ex-Partners More Favorably Than Women Do [in Graz, Austria, in the year 2019]

That's correct, still, it is ok. That's why you don't make bold, generalized claims based on one study.

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> wondering whether their sample acknowledges the disproportionate number of men who murder their ex-female-partner Curious how this is relevant to the study? Roughly 0.001% of women are killed by a male partner each year in the US and - while terrible in of itself - I can't see it affecting the results of this study in any significant way.

Among US women, fear/wariness-of and preparedness-for attempts at bodily harm and abusive behavior by men appears to be near-universal. EDIT: Removed bad pre-coffee math. See replies below for better math. I hope this helps you see why such a consideration could be considered relevant to the study.

(125,000 per year if I do my math right)

You're high by a factor of 100.

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Anecdotal, however I find that in my lifetime I was/am able to 'move on' and forget about things such as minor disagreements between partners where they (female partners) have tended to dwell on things longer than my male friends. Could have been the same if I had male partners I suppose, although that isn't my personal taste. Not just in relationships but even among co-workers I notice there is a lot more gossip bet…

I forget everything conflict related basically ... I think it is a defensive mechanism but it sure can be bad because you forget about things and you might end up in a new "normal" that is anything but normal.

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Oh boy, research showing differences between biological genders. This is going to either be ignored or absolutely explode.

This is an unsurprising position to hold when you don’t know (or refuse to acknowledge) the difference between gender and sex. Do you think people who transition to a different gender think there’s no difference between the two?

Gender has until recently been a synonym for sex. If you are referring to gender identity, then use that term.

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It's absurd to group half the population into one group, and then try to work out what makes that group as a whole tick.

It makes a lot of sense however, to separate people based on a criterion and find out how the resulting groups differ from each other.

I believe the criteria needs to be more nuanced that 'man' and 'woman' to be able to elicit anything valuable about society.
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