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Re: Ask HN: Quitting my job tomorrow, advice?

#14
If you're a valued part of their team your boss(es) are unlikely to be as excited about your new adventure as you are.

Fine to say you're leaving to pursue your own thing, but it's not the time to be offering anything other than help in finding or training a replacement and making the transition easy on them so they look back at you in the most favorable light when you do approach them down the road.

Re: Ask HN: Quitting my job tomorrow, advice?

#15
Don't tell them what are you going to do. They will most probably hate the idea of becoming your customer, at least at start.

So just don't do it for the sake of good relationship with this employer.

Also a lesson of being independent which you know already: you don't have to excuse yourself. Do your stuff and move on.

Re: Ask HN: Quitting my job tomorrow, advice?

#16
post #8

Earlier quoted context omitted.

This is the best job I've ever had and I think everyone there is awesome. This should be a mutually beneficial move for everyone so I don't think burning bridges will be an issue.

I quit the best job I ever had. Honestly, I regret it still.

really? any more details on this? We always hear stories about people being happy about quitting their job and how they should have done it earlier.

What did you quit for?

Re: Ask HN: Quitting my job tomorrow, advice?

#17
When I left my last full-time job to return to freelancing I walked in on a Monday morning and gave my two weeks notice to the boss man. I went in with the goal of trying not to piss them off and in the process turn them into a client/customer. Similar to what you're angling for from what I can tell by your comments.

So two tips:

- Make sure you're ready. I knew going in, just like you feel you do, that they would be open to my plan. A lot of the time leading up to giving my notice was spent making sure I was right. I quite literally spent three months getting the balls to jump ship and making sure I was pretty confident I would come out with a client.

- For the love of God, play it cool when you tell them. Try and remember that you're quitting a job and not making a sales call. I wouldn't lead with your plans until they ask. During our conversation about the transition, the chit-chat slowly worked towards what they should do when I was gone. That's when I threw out that they could hire someone else full-time or take me on as a contractor for the technically heavy work and dish out the rest to existing employees.

The only thing I find worrisome about your scenario is that you're apparently counting on them buying a product that doesn't appear to exist yet. They can say "Sure, great idea!" on the day you leave and then, months down the line when it's time to play ball they can act dumb and say "No thanks, baby. That was just pillow talk."

I feel like you might be putting the cart before the horse a bit here but I wish you the best of luck.

Re: Ask HN: Quitting my job tomorrow, advice?

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post #16
post #8

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I quit the best job I ever had. Honestly, I regret it still.

really? any more details on this? We always hear stories about people being happy about quitting their job and how they should have done it earlier. What did you quit for?

I quit because I moved to Italy for 2 years. That was 4 years ago. I miss the job and the people. I would recommend taking a 'leave of absence' before quitting.
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