Earlier quoted context omitted.
Median household income in USA is $59,039. That's both the mother AND father working to bring home $59,039 on the average (before taxes and other costs). Its clear you live in a rich area where $100k isn't much. But that's also why a large chunk of Americans think that "city-folk" are disconnected from reality. $100k is a lot for many people. My sister lives in an area (in USA) where a 2-bedroom apartment is just $50…
> Its clear you live in a rich area where $100k isn't much You mean he doesn't live out in the sticks or a run-down city like Detroit (MI), Gary (IN), or Paterson (NJ). You don't need to live in a rich area for $100k to not be that much.
* NYC median household income is $57k
* Philadelphia median household income is $40k
* Washington DC median household income is $77k
* San Francisco median household income is $96k
* Austin Texas is $63k.
Stats from: https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/austincitytexas...
So even in San Francisco, the most expensive city I'm aware of, the average HOUSE brings in $96k. A single man (or woman) bringing $100k working in San Francisco is decidedly well-above average.
Bring in $100k in San Francisco, and your wife (or husband) doesn't even need to work to live like the median.
Other cities, a $100k job (with a stay-at-home wife / hosband) will be 30% to 100% higher than the median. $100k is a lot.