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If I go with PHP, Apache will be running non-threaded. To run Apache/PHP as lean as possible, I'll take advantage of thttpd's polling to quickly serve up any static content I have to as many simultaneous connections as possible. I haven't taken a really deep look at lighttpd nor nginx. I see what you mean though, why would I use two distinctly different http servers where one would simply do? Could you give me some h…
Apache buys you two things: rock-solid, time-tested stability, and millions of words of writing both online and in print about administration and tuning. Lighty and Nginx are both (like thttpd) leaner, potentially faster, and "sexier." Neither has the proven stability or community that Apache does, and neither is going to help much if your bottlenecks are at the application layer, rather than just shooting raw bits o…
I care about the community/support aspect and you're right; I think going solely with Apache, and skipping the leaner httpd engines, is definitely a possible choice for me.
Thanks.