> Planes, trains, bicycles, people die on all of them.
By that argument, you can claim that people die eating strawberries, which I'm sure must have happened at some point in history, and it would be equally true and equally worthless to point out.
You know that car deaths are much more prevalent than plane or train death, and how many of the bicycle deaths are because they are hit by a car?
> Would she argue airline autopilot was a bad thing?
Would you argue airline autopilots were even remotely comparable?
During takeoff and landing, both pilots (yeah, two people!) have full, undivided attention to flying the plane. There are "sterile cockpit" rules which explicitly forbid unrelated chatter. Even with a full auto landing (something mostly only done in very low visibility conditions), the pilots have no relief of attention.
At cruise altitude, it is true that the autopilot relieves the pilots from the attention of having to fly the plane (it does not relieve them from still scanning the instruments, managing the flight, and many other tasks). But that's because at cruise altitude, you might have noticed that there are no roads, trees, or any other objects whatsoever. Including other planes.