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In Defense of Richard Stallman

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Re: In Defense of Richard Stallman

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> He's rejecting the arguments that pedophilia causes harm to children No, he is not saying that. In that quote that you used he isn't even saying that pedophilia isn't harmful when it is consensual. I'm really interested how you reached that conclusion while reading the same text I'm reading. > Pedophilia is sometimes not harmful to children As far as I can see those are your words and not his. Where does he say tha…

Edit: No actually I think I can make it clearer. Here's Stallman himself summarizing his own words: > Many years ago I posted that I could not see anything wrong about sex between an adult and a child, if the child accepted it. In those words he was saying that in some cases there is nothing wrong with an adult having sex with a child. So I guess what's left is whether "fine" and "nothing wrong with" are equivalent.

> No actually I think I can make it clearer. Here's Stallman himself summarizing his own words

That is not making it clearer. First, I was interested in how you interpreted the quote you used as you did. This doesn't make it clearer. Secondly, I don't know if the quote you are using now is referencing the firs quote or something else. I suspect that you do not either.

Also it seems that you have some axe to grind against the man. Here is the full quote:

>> Many years ago I posted that I could not see anything wrong about sex between an adult and a child, if the child accepted it.

>> Through personal conversations in recent years, I've learned to understand how sex with a child can harm per psychologically. This changed my mind about the matter: I think adults should not do that. I am grateful for the conversations that enabled me to understand why.

> In those words he was saying that in some cases there is nothing wrong with an adult having sex with a child.

We are not talking about those words, are we?

Re: In Defense of Richard Stallman

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He built a global movement challenging people publically and he's happy to semi-publically state his opinions about sexual assault at the worst possible time, but he will stay silent about pressure to step down to be nice? I'm sorry, but I just don't believe that.

>He built a global movement challenging people publically Exactly, is it hard to imagine he doesn't want to take a blow torch to his own creation just as a last "fuck you" farewell? >happy to semi-publically state his opinions about sexual assault He said sexual assault is bad. How dare he?!

He rejects the term 'Sexual Assault' completely. https://stallman.org/antiglossary.html#assult

There's plenty of troubling stuff in his writing.

Re: In Defense of Richard Stallman

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Sadly, a large number of people seem to have decided that their feelings are more important than the truth. That if something makes you feel bad, this means it is bad and must be destroyed. This is like how a dark basement might be scary to a child. A normal adult would explain that the basement is actually harmless, and teach the child to see it for what it really is and learn not be afraid of it. The feelings-first…

IMHO, the modern left has become very harsh in condemning people, showing very little compassion, and engaging in witch-hunts. I think t his is extremely unhelpful.

I think this has arisen out of a feeling of righteousness as a result of having been morally right on many things in the past several decades, but it is just indulging the same human tenancy to hate others that perceived as not being part of one's tribe as racism etc, but with a better superficial justification. It is, IMHO, more unhelpful though. People can see racism is bad, but it is quite easy to fall into the trap of thinking that abusing a racist is perfectly fine, and go along with it, but there is a reason we don't use vigilante justice for everything. People become outraged at the treatment of people that they see as unfair, and, IMHO, this is where hatred of political correctness, and unwillingness to engage in attempts to be more progressive come from. IMHO, this hatred by the left, and with-hunt like behaviour, is at least as big an obstacle to progress on many social justice issues as people holding bigoted views that it seeks to break down, because it makes the bigoted people look reasonable.

At the beginning of this issue, I saw headlines or twitter comments alleging a lot of things, read what RMS had actually said, and concluded that the headlines and tweets are bullshit, and dismissed them all, resolving to never believe this type of thing without examining the evidence myself again. This would probably have led to me dismissing a lot of complaints about people in positions of power, assuming they they are similarly unreliable. A friend has said that there are other examples of RMS being disrespectful towards women, but I haven't had a chance to look at them yet, and are not prepared to believe them without evidence, because I have seen that much of what is said second-hand is complete crap. People exaggerating what he has said probably did so because they want to see action and create a safer space for victimised groups, especially women, in CS, but the effect has been to make all allegations highly suspect, at least to me, and I suspect many others, thus having the opposite effect. In a world where allegations that aren't true aren't extremely rare, no allegation can believed without a lot of evidence, and most crimes don't leave much.

The effect of these social media with-hunts that happen when anyone says anything objectionable has been to make most of the population highly resistant to condemning people I think, making it hard to do so when someone actually says something terrible. I think that a significant part of the reason that there is someone who advocated sexual assault as president of the US is that people have heard wolf-cries about people so much that they just don't care if they hear that someone has advocated sexual assault, because last time they heard that, the person had just said something mildly insensitive or something, and so they have started dismissing all allegations unless they have a lot more evidence behind them.

I think that people on the left going overboard in hating their opponents have created more problems for their side than their opponents. I say this as someone who is extremely left wing on most issues. Exaggerating things is never helpful I don't think.

Re: In Defense of Richard Stallman

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from reading just this comment, i would have assumed that stallman was stripped of all his land and titles and made to starve under a bridge. what really happened was that he went from holding leadership positions in three prominent institutions to just one. it's easy to have strong feelings about these issues, but let's try to keep things in perspective.

Apparently to zero, and if we're to believe the article, he's been made to starve under the bridge too (if I'm to believe the countless HN threads about homelessness in the US, this is how being homeless looks like).

Food is relatively accessible in the US for everyone but there are of course difficulties for people who need help knowing about the resources available to them or practical difficulties in taking advantage of those resources (lack of transportation, scheduling difficulties with children or one or more jobs, etc.)

Accommodations underneath bridges and even worse places for our homeless are unfortunately a widespread issue in the US.

Re: In Defense of Richard Stallman

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My social skills are just fine thanks. I’m still not under the illusion allistic people like autistic people, or accept them except under the condition that they hide who and what they are. I don’t think autistic people are creepy perverts. I think that normal people pretty much automatically think they’re creepy because there’s something off about the way they interact socially. The degree of offness varies but if y…

You keep going to extremes. I'm not saying everyone treats autistic people perfectly, I'm just not agreeing that most people are so repulsed that they feel physically unsafe around us and treat us like creeps. The act of socializing itself is exhausting to me, but I don't necessarily feel like I have to hide everything about myself, its more like I have to pay attention to how I respond to people because I might say…

What extremes?

I said Stallman was an equal opportunity autistic asshole rather than a sexual predator. You impugned my social skills.

I never said people felt threatened by autistic people. They’re disgusted. Just like fat or ugly people. People aren’t creeped out by scary, violent men, they’re afraid of them. Being creeped out is about disgust, not fear.

I have no comment about society because that’s every individual’s own problem, just like being fat or ugly. No one except maybe your family and friends care, so deal with it or suffer or deal with it and suffer. But don’t sugar coat it and pretend things are ok and people are nice. This is a fallen world and if you find your way into a pleasant part it’s through continuous, vigourous effort.

Re: In Defense of Richard Stallman

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I'll speak up: I'm happy that Stallman resigned from his positions, but the final straw for me was the surfacing of Stallman's pedophilic musings over the years. You left that part out.

Please provide a link. I’ve seen this repeated, but no source. I don’t necessarily doubt it, but if you don’t provide a link your basically committing slander.

I saw it, posted on a mailing list. Old stuff that he according to some distanced himself from lately.

He was merely voicing the opinion "if all is consensual what's the problem"... An opinion he changed from later.

Re: In Defense of Richard Stallman

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Yes? Is it surprising to you that words can have consequences up to and including your employers no longer wanting to employ you?

The problem with your line of thinking is that it discourages people from expressing their opinions if they deviate from the opinion of the majority. If people need to be concerned about having their lives ruined over what they write in an email, or an online forum, can’t you see what kind of chilling effect this has?

I mean of course words have consequences. Denying it is just absurd. If an employee of yours regularly expresses his opinion that your children are sexy and he'd like to have sex with them, what would you do about it that does not in any way discourage him from expressing his opinion? Surely you can't reprimand him or fire him.

Or an employee that regularly talks publicly about how horrible your company is and that no one should work there. Can't discourage any expression of opinion, so what can you do?

Re: In Defense of Richard Stallman

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For context, please also link to what his current thoughts are, where he's since changed his mind after being convinced he was wrong. https://stallman.org/archives/2019-jul-oct.html#14_September...

Good point, thanks. I'll also add some more context: These current thoughts on pedophilia were posted two days after the "Remove Richard Stallman" Medium post went up.

Are you talking about the post that intentionally misquoted him?

Re: In Defense of Richard Stallman

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Yes? Is it surprising to you that words can have consequences up to and including your employers no longer wanting to employ you?

So would you agree if your employer fires you because of this chain of posts?

No, but I'd understand if I had been publicly saying that sometimes there's nothing wrong with having sex with children. When I say that words can have consequences, it matters which words you use.

Re: In Defense of Richard Stallman

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Thanks for the link. It's interesting start. But it doesn't show me a predator as I expect at the end of sexual assault accusations. It shows more of a sad lonely guy, that's probably sometimes annoying and is not welcome by people. This date-suicide thing is still abusive, but on very personal and not even ethical level. Not sure if it should involve some organization in any way. It's a bit hard now to figure out wh…

That's a thing that often is misunderstood: Intent is not required to be a cultural detriment. RMS still refuses to take any sort of criticism, even now. People refuse to see the problem in this very thread. That is what's wrong with tech. Not wanting to see the problem.

Couldn't it be just a plain understanding of imperfections in human nature? The old adage of perfect being the enemy of the good?
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