Earlier quoted context omitted.
It appears he's already dead. https://www.ibtimes.com/who-carmen-tarleton-lye-attack-victi...
Quoting the linked article: “I have fully forgiven him and I don’t have the same attitude that a lot of people have with his treatment of me,” Tarleton said. “I have moved on so well and in so many ways. I feel like, for me, it ends a big chapter in my life.” More than what happened to her, what stands out to me is that she's moved on. That's strength. There are things that no one can take away.
Self-blame is very common in victims of domestic abuse, and when one suffers from it they're predisposed towards "forgiveness". It's really a compensation for feeling somehow responsible for their own abuse, which is very unfortunate.
I'm glad she seems to have found some closure in his death though.