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[1] https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Hand-Thought-Foundations-Budd...
[2] https://www.amazon.com/Zen-Mind-Beginners-Informal-Meditatio...
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You mentioned quitting cannabis. If you don't mind elaborating, I'm curious what benefits you have experienced and why you ended up quitting. Thanks!
Ex cannabis user here, so I thought I'd give you my empirical perspective & and opinion. I will tell you what I would tell my own child: Cannabis, like any recreational drug, steals the most precious resource we have: our time. I've been on benders in my life that I simply can not remember what I did during that period, sure, but that's not what I'm talking about. What I am talking about is the time any person needs…
>Recreational drugs are antithetical to emotional growth.
https://maps.org/research/mdma
> tl/dr: Recreational drugs make you immature which will prevent you from going very far in life.
When I was just a little young boy,
Papa said "Son, you'll never get far,
I'll tell you the reason if you want to know,
'Cause child of mine, there isn't really very far to go"
This reminds me of an article shared here on the value of doing nothing. How does walking around with a clear head compared to meditation practically speaking?
You can do a walking meditation, where you will likewise be focused on something: one possibility being the physical sensations of walking (arms swinging, feet hitting ground), or the experience of the surroundings (light, breeze, sounds, and so on).
The difference to just walking around, or just sitting calmly, is that you are putting some effort into maintaining that particular focus, whatever it is. You will always get distracted by something else, but when you notice, you switch back. And keep on doing that for the length of the exercise.
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For beginners, I would recommend two things: ambient noise (with headphones/noise-cancelling works best for me), and a soft alarm for the timer. I used to DIY it, but I find the InsightTimer app is a free & customizable solution filling both these needs.
I use the Chimes tone on my iPhone at a low enough volume. Quite gentle to wake up to after a session of meditation.
I have been meditating 20 years now (zazen). I do 2-4 hours a day. Several 7 day retreats per year. My starting motivation was philosophical and academic interest. I was curious how it affects the mind. Then I did it because it seemed so hard to do, mind seemed like a buggy device I had no control over. I also had self improvement goals at some point. And feeling balanced is a good feeling. But there is no way I can…
> I do 2-4 hours a day. Just reading this gave me anxiety.
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To get started. Absolutely. Headspace has been instrumental in dealing with a very hard time in my life. For a secular, scientific look at mindfulness meditation read the book “Why Buddhism is true.”
Here is a podcast with the author: https://samharris.org/podcasts/is-buddhism-true/
I've tried in the past, but I wonder: how do you know if you've successfully meditated or not?
I also posted this the other day, about "failing" at the exercise: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=20675811
I have been meditating 20 years now (zazen). I do 2-4 hours a day. Several 7 day retreats per year. My starting motivation was philosophical and academic interest. I was curious how it affects the mind. Then I did it because it seemed so hard to do, mind seemed like a buggy device I had no control over. I also had self improvement goals at some point. And feeling balanced is a good feeling. But there is no way I can…
> I do 2-4 hours a day. Several 7 day retreats per year. I did the same in my 20s, but then slowly, my interest in sitting for hours a day, long retreats, faded. Not sure why, the experience itself is obviously deep, but it became a kind of attachment like coffee, and gradually I returned to the world. > If I worship something, it's this moment Wonderfully put. May I ask, if you didn't sit, would this moment cease? P…
I began meditating every day after I wake up four years ago and it has been the most beneficial change I ever introduced into my life, quitting cannabis securing a stable second place. I began with five min and worked my way up to 15. Now I have an iOS shortcut “hey Siri, start meditation” which sets a timer randomly between 15 and 20 min to counteract the body clock expectation of a fixed duration.
This reminds me of an article shared here on the value of doing nothing. How does walking around with a clear head compared to meditation practically speaking?