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Also: this one is more present today. I can just not mention I'm married, while still reaping the benefits of being attractive.
True. But I do just the opposite. Even though they aren’t allowed to ask me if I am married, I go out of my way to mention off handedly that I am married. I want them to “discriminate” against me if they have the type of culture that expects people to work for 60 hours a week regularly.
I've been going around telling how my wife is nine months pregnant, asking how the paternity benefits are.