So what do I use for encrypted messaging that can, like, replace email, then? Nobody seems to have provided any sort of satisfactory answer to this question. To be clear, an answer this has to not just be a secure way of sending messages, it also has to replicate the
social affordances of email.
E.g., things distinguishing how email is used from how text-messaging is used:
1. Email is potentially long-form. I sit down and type it from my computer. Text-messaging is always short, although possibly it's a series of short messages. A series of short emails, by contrast, is an annoyance; it's something you try to avoid sending (even though you inevitably do when it turns out you got something wrong). Similarly, you don't typically hold rapid-fire conversations over email.
2. On that point, email says, you don't need to read this immediately. I expect a text message will be probably be read in a few minutes, and probably replied to later that day (if there's no particular urgency). I expect an email will be probably read in a few hours, and probably replied to in a few days (if there's no particular urgency).
3. It's OK to cold-email people. To text someone you need their phone number; it's for people you know. By contrast, email addresses are things that people frequently make public specifically so that strangers can contact them.
So what am I supposed to do for secure messaging that replicates that? The best answer I've gotten for this so far -- other than PGP which is apparently bad -- is "install Signal on your computer in addition to your phone and just use it as if it's email". That's... not really a satisfactory answer. Like, I expect a multi-page Signal message talking about everything I've been up to for the past month to annoy its recipient, who is likely reading it on their phone, not their computer. And I can't send someone a Signal message about a paper they wrote that I have some comments on, not unless they're going to put their fricking phone number on their website.
So what do I do here? The secure email replacement just doesn't seem to be here yet.