This is an excellent point, and the much more fascinating corollaries: - a product designer/manager of something with 1,000,000 users won’t learn more about usability than a product designer/manager of something with 15 users. All those measurements of flows and secret at scale analytics data is sort of worthless for the purposes of usability. - people with 15 users worth of learning about usability instead of 0 user…
Your 1st point isn't correct, in that you will learn interesting things from 1m users that you won't from 15. The thing is that the 15 will tell you why, whereas the 1m won't unless you ask precisely the right question (which is a problem in itself). It basically takes experience here... (And this is something an AI may eventually become very good at.)
Your 3rd and 4th point aren't correct, in that given some sampling error you may very well find that what 15 people don't like 1m will.
I'm in full agreement with you in principle, in the sense that I firmly hold that far too many start-ups do quantitative without qualitative and end up with the wrong conclusions; but you can't just wave away quantitative data like that.