It's been rather disturbing to see this whole thing play out --- I'm not taking sides here, but Apple "flexing its arms" in this manner shows that it is willing and has the power to go beyond policing its App Store and such (which while I do not like, I feel it does have the right to) and involve itself in the affairs of third-party software which it did not originally install. (This is subtly different from updating…
How do you feel about Windows Defender?
That said, in the context of my original comment, AVs are a bit of a special case because their sole and expected purpose is to detect and remove software they don't like.
[1] https://www.csoonline.com/article/3216765/security/heres-why...
[2] https://stackoverflow.com/questions/22926360/malwarebytes-gi...