If a trait is not strongly selected for but variation exists it will be maintained in the population. See height, hair colour, propensity to gain weight, etc.
Then you change the environment so that the trait is under strong selection. The people living in Scandinavia 3,000 years ago couldn’t digest lactose. Now ethnic Scandinavians who are lactose intolerant are basically nonexistent. It’s at above 99% homozygotes.
Imagine taking a population and killing everyone over 18 under 1.8m and doing this for four generations. Assuming anyone was left after the first generation the fourth generation will be substantially taller than the first.
Desire for children was never under strong selection pressure before because desire to have sex led to children pretty reliably up until the birth of the demographic transition in France in the ~1700s. Now it is under selection pressure, everywhere with reliable access to contraception so the people who like children are going to have more children, and their share of the population will grow.
> Large families simply happen due to poverty. When poor, you want more children because there's strength in numbers. Plus the women are staying home and can afford to have children.
This will be news to the Mormons, Amish, Hutterites and the Hasidim among a number of Orthodox sects of Jews. Large families do not just happen due to poverty. Some people want more children and arrange their lives around that.