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For what purpose? See: https://stressgrid.com/blog/benchmarking_go_vs_node_vs_elixi...
I feel like that article just supports the comment you're replying to. I mean, look at this: https://stressgrid.com/blog/benchmarking_go_vs_node_vs_elixi... If the article had gone up to 250K connections, Elixir would have fallen down similarly to what happened to Node... although the reasons for Node being unable to keep up were unclear in the article, and I think warranted further investigation that the article did…
You can have that in Go as well, you just need to build all the clustering mechanisms, OTP behaviors, tooling, actor model, embedded monitoring services and such from the scratch. You may well see Go significantly slower than Elixir at this point when you finish baking all that into it.
Developer hours are significantly more expensive than hosting. I'd happily pay double for hosting if it meant I could need half the people to accomplish the same task.