It is hard to do the things you love when you aren't wanted. Setting aside the statistics for a moment, imagine being a teenage girl and overhearing boys talk about how girls are dumb. Brainless machines of no consequence. That women can't code or contribute much in fields like math. "They just don't have the brain for it." These moments stay with you and they impede you at moments when you need to be free. They push…
True, but it is no different for boys these days. Not wanted by teachers and they see that girls just get better grades leaving many uninspired to pursuit greater.
‘I believed I didn't have the right kind of brain for science’
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#22> by the time she reached Harvard, hoping to study medicine, she was so far behind that “I couldn’t even take a remedial math class” Wat? How'd she get into Harvard then? Legacy admission?
Many people who go to Harvard aren't great at math. After all, there are so many other fields of study outside of STEM.
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#23It is hard to do the things you love when you aren't wanted. Setting aside the statistics for a moment, imagine being a teenage girl and overhearing boys talk about how girls are dumb. Brainless machines of no consequence. That women can't code or contribute much in fields like math. "They just don't have the brain for it." These moments stay with you and they impede you at moments when you need to be free. They push…
In fact, for most of my educational life the "top student of the class" has been female, even through engineering and maths.
Am I some kind of odd outlier? is the experience on other countries different? I'm genouinly curious.
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#24What a banal way to advertise your book.
There’s this point I heard someone made about internet toxicity: “it used to be that if you didn’t have anything positive to say you’d just shit up and move on; if anything to avoid a bitter quarrel in person. On the internet, the lack of any immediate personal consequence removed this restraint, allowing the worst thoughts to pour out, and drown whatever good is said.”
Thanks, for being today’s example. Now can you please make the effort next time?
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#25It is hard to do the things you love when you aren't wanted. Setting aside the statistics for a moment, imagine being a teenage girl and overhearing boys talk about how girls are dumb. Brainless machines of no consequence. That women can't code or contribute much in fields like math. "They just don't have the brain for it." These moments stay with you and they impede you at moments when you need to be free. They push…
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#26It is hard to do the things you love when you aren't wanted. Setting aside the statistics for a moment, imagine being a teenage girl and overhearing boys talk about how girls are dumb. Brainless machines of no consequence. That women can't code or contribute much in fields like math. "They just don't have the brain for it." These moments stay with you and they impede you at moments when you need to be free. They push…
Maybe Spain (of all places) is super-progressive, but I can't recall a single instance of anyone saying anything similar to "Women can't code" or "Women can't do math". In fact, for most of my educational life the "top student of the class" has been female, even through engineering and maths. Am I some kind of odd outlier? is the experience on other countries different? I'm genouinly curious.
Edit: It can also become weirdly specific; participation in computer science and physics remain quite low here (Ireland), say, but I believe most chemistry undergrads are now women.
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#27What a banal way to advertise your book.
There, that’s one of those “knock down” the article is about. There’s this point I heard someone made about internet toxicity: “it used to be that if you didn’t have anything positive to say you’d just shit up and move on; if anything to avoid a bitter quarrel in person. On the internet, the lack of any immediate personal consequence removed this restraint, allowing the worst thoughts to pour out, and drown whatever…
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#29Earlier quoted context omitted.
Maybe Spain (of all places) is super-progressive, but I can't recall a single instance of anyone saying anything similar to "Women can't code" or "Women can't do math". In fact, for most of my educational life the "top student of the class" has been female, even through engineering and maths. Am I some kind of odd outlier? is the experience on other countries different? I'm genouinly curious.
I think this stuff actually is pretty regional/local; participation rates by women are much better in some non-Anglosphere countries. Edit: It can also become weirdly specific; participation in computer science and physics remain quite low here (Ireland), say, but I believe most chemistry undergrads are now women.
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#30Not until I went to university, to study computer science, of all things. I was good at language, so I treated programming as a language problem. I learned well enough to make a career for myself as a programmer. I guess that doesn't say much, though, there's many bad programmers out there who make tons of money.
After university, I did a masters in Data Science. Why I get myself in those situations, I'll never know, but I studied Data Science. By then I knew how to program so I tackled all the maths problems as programming problems. When I didn't get something, I coded it. So I coded a bunch of linear and logistic regressions, and perceptrons and recurrent neural nets and the like, 'till I grokked them right.
So now I'm studying for a PhD in machine learning, in one of the best universities in the world. Not bad for a kid who always got the worse grades at maths, at school, eh?
So what I learned is this:
a) play to your strengths, not your weaknesses.
b) Dont' believe when people say you haven't got what it takes. They only know one way to do things. You do you.
Oh and- you know what? Turns out I'm not that bad at maths after all. Certainly not the discrete maths used in computer science. Not even the continuous maths used in data science and machine learning. I get by.