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I am a Female Sole Founder with no Dev Experience… Yeah, it’s a Tough Road

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Re: I am a Female Sole Founder with no Dev Experience… Yeah, it’s a Tough Road

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

Presumably because you'd probably skip right past the link if it was just titled "I am a Sole Founder with no Dev Experience… Yeah, it’s a Tough Road."

She's in marketing... Interesting how so many of the comments are about whether or not "female" belongs in the post. So now she's in marketing, and smart.

"So now she's in marketing, and smart."

Only if the people who are talking about it are potential customers and users. No discussion on that yet!

Re: I am a Female Sole Founder with no Dev Experience… Yeah, it’s a Tough Road

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Why even bring the 'female' bit into it? It means nothing, unless you think it's a handicap... And then it is, but only because you think it is. As for finding a co-founder... You expect to do that without giving up equity? What would be in it for them? I'm not surprised you haven't found anyone.

Why are people on HN so anal about how people identify themselves? If I introduce myself as "single beer-loving founder", why is that even an issue? If I view myself and wishes to identify myself in a certain way why can't we just accept that? Besides, this is a personal blog, can't people say what they want on their own blog? The worst part is now there is a whole section of this thread dedicated to this pointless conversation.

Re: I am a Female Sole Founder with no Dev Experience… Yeah, it’s a Tough Road

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post #6

Why even bring the 'female' bit into it? It means nothing, unless you think it's a handicap... And then it is, but only because you think it is. As for finding a co-founder... You expect to do that without giving up equity? What would be in it for them? I'm not surprised you haven't found anyone.

Her "day job" is "being a mom of twins and a wife". I doubt any man doing a startup can say something similar. She doesn't really talk much about how that impacts her work but there is substantial evidence that raising kids and running the household routinely interfere with female career ambitions but usually don't interfere with male career ambitions. So perhaps it is relevant (to her challenges with trying to do a…

Maybe the article got changed, but the article I read says this:

my “day job” [...] is a co-owner of a marketing project management business

Re: I am a Female Sole Founder with no Dev Experience… Yeah, it’s a Tough Road

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

She's in marketing... Interesting how so many of the comments are about whether or not "female" belongs in the post. So now she's in marketing, and smart.

"So now she's in marketing, and smart." Only if the people who are talking about it are potential customers and users. No discussion on that yet!

good point :-)

Re: I am a Female Sole Founder with no Dev Experience… Yeah, it’s a Tough Road

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post #23
post #6

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Her "day job" is "being a mom of twins and a wife". I doubt any man doing a startup can say something similar. She doesn't really talk much about how that impacts her work but there is substantial evidence that raising kids and running the household routinely interfere with female career ambitions but usually don't interfere with male career ambitions. So perhaps it is relevant (to her challenges with trying to do a…

Maybe the article got changed, but the article I read says this: my “day job” [...] is a co-owner of a marketing project management business

Yes, it got changed.

Re: I am a Female Sole Founder with no Dev Experience… Yeah, it’s a Tough Road

#26
post #5

Why even bring the 'female' bit into it? It means nothing, unless you think it's a handicap... And then it is, but only because you think it is. As for finding a co-founder... You expect to do that without giving up equity? What would be in it for them? I'm not surprised you haven't found anyone.

I think that, frankly, it probably is a handicap whether she thinks it is or not. There are going to be folks who write off the female single founder where they wouldn't a male single founder. It's worth recognizing that there is a barrier, and the fact that we don't see it is the single biggest reason that it isn't going anywhere. On the other hand, I agree with you that the dominating factor is the single non-techn…

Well, considering how much attention her post has generated that fact that she is a female well may be to her benefit. Her entire story could be valuable for her when pursuing funding, as it's fairly unique.

Re: I am a Female Sole Founder with no Dev Experience… Yeah, it’s a Tough Road

#27

Why even bring the 'female' bit into it? It means nothing, unless you think it's a handicap... And then it is, but only because you think it is. As for finding a co-founder... You expect to do that without giving up equity? What would be in it for them? I'm not surprised you haven't found anyone.

Her intro is listing her notable traits that are rather uncommon in the field of web entrepreneurship. Female being probably the biggest one. This is no different than any other 'hook' people use to gain attention. It's only worth noting the fact that she noted her gender because everyone is so sensitive about the subject.

Re: I am a Female Sole Founder with no Dev Experience… Yeah, it’s a Tough Road

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I added in a comment on her site as well that she might want to look into making some more of those images on the page actual text for some SEO boost on the page. As it is right now, there is almost no 'text' on the page.

As google sees it: http://bit.ly/gZ2inI

Re: I am a Female Sole Founder with no Dev Experience… Yeah, it’s a Tough Road

#29
post #17

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'"being a mom of twins and a wife. I doubt any man doing a startup can say something similar.' A bit hard given that men by definition can't be mothers and wives... Seriously though - there is certainly a sense where adding the 'female' into the description of the reality actually does get extra information across. The fact is that life balance is often more important to women and they do still tend to get lumped wit…

A bit hard given that men by definition can't be mothers and wives... They can still be parents and spouses, even if a different (gender-specific) term is used. However, men rarely do the full-time father thing and, from what I have seen around me, even when they are unemployed and financially dependent on their wife, they don't typically take over the housework and cooking to the point of doing it 40 to 60 hours per…

Raising children can be tough, but 60 hours of housework per week? In my house there's maybe 1-2 hours of cooking for dinner everyday and maybe 5 hours of cleanup on Saturday morning (this includes cleaning bathrooms, sweeping, mopping, vacuuming, etc.). Laundry takes 10 minutes to separate, then the machines pretty much do the rest of the job. Laundry gets done once a week for a family of four here for another 2-3 hours.

Maxing all those values, that's what, 22 hours? Where are the other 38 coming from?

ETA: I'm not being facetious here, I genuinely want to know what those hours are being spent on. When you have very young children, sure, but by 6/7 kids in my family are expected to start being self-sufficient (in the ways they can, such as picking up their toys, brushing their own teeth). By the time you hit 10, you've been doing some serious work around the house. I also got my first job at 14...

Re: I am a Female Sole Founder with no Dev Experience… Yeah, it’s a Tough Road

#30
post #22

Why even bring the 'female' bit into it? It means nothing, unless you think it's a handicap... And then it is, but only because you think it is. As for finding a co-founder... You expect to do that without giving up equity? What would be in it for them? I'm not surprised you haven't found anyone.

Why are people on HN so anal about how people identify themselves? If I introduce myself as "single beer-loving founder", why is that even an issue? If I view myself and wishes to identify myself in a certain way why can't we just accept that? Besides, this is a personal blog, can't people say what they want on their own blog? The worst part is now there is a whole section of this thread dedicated to this pointless c…

Because it's always female. Never beer-loving, or Asian, or bipolar. The whole industry is caught up in this obsession over the lack of women in tech, and I'm so incredibly sick of it.
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