One factor that will return once people start to panic is table manners, many of which seem fussy (separate saving utensils, a butter knife, not putting used utensils onto the table) but actually evolved for hygiene reasons. Sadly of course like any complex behavior it was also hijacked for sumptuary purposes (grape shears, egg spoons, not finishing your plate in some cultures) but I hold out a hope (probably in vail…
> many of which seem fussy (separate saving utensils, a butter knife, not putting used utensils onto the table) Fussy? Aren’t these just common sense? I wouldn’t consider them to even be “table manners”.
Well yes, I agree they are sensible but it seems in the USA they are not only typically unknown but seen as pretentious.
E.g. rather than have a butter knife for transferring butter to your plate and then using a regular or smaller but regular style knife for spreading it on your bread, each person (in a typical semi-fancy US restaurant) is issued a butter knife which is used both to retrieve butter and to spread it on your (potentially bitten) bread.
And they are learned matters.