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Yes, it sucks to be told you are a sinner. What language would you suggest people use in order to encourage people to be vegan? Suggesting it is the moral choice seems like a good method to me. Then again i am inclined to seek the moral and respond to guilt. You seem more concerned about not being condescended to; for such an individual, what language would you find cogent?
None. I don't have any plans to be a vegan so don't want anyone telling me to do it.
With that said, I'm curious why you don't want anyone trying to convince you to change your mind?
I don't want to eat meat, and I don't plan to, but if someone had some reasoned arguments as to why I should, I'd listen and decide for myself. I'm not you though, but I am curious what reason(s) you have for not being open to discussing it. I'm also curious why you phrased it as someone telling you to do it, rather than discussing it.