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> They probably don’t want you to lie, but there is a small chance that they pruessure you to. In my experience, most of the time there was pressure. I remember a funny conversation between my project manager and a colleague: PM: "We need to have X as soon as possible, how long will it take you?" Dev: "Oh that's, easy, I can finish it tomorrow." PM: "Tomorrow??? That's impossible, because it needs a and b, no?" Dev:…
Can you explain which part, in your opinion, is facepalm worthy? In your example conversation, the developer starts off by demonstrating that they are not good at thinking through how long things take them, by giving an impossibly optimistic estimate. Even the PM, whose job is not to figure out how to build stuff or how long building stuff takes, knows the estimate is wrong, and pushes back on it, pointing out depend…
or who doesn't know that "I'll need some time to get back to you on that" is an acceptable part of their vocabulary.