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U.S. teens are spending less time with their friends in person

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Surely kids still try to make gunpowder, what are you talking about? And for who but kids are pocket knives and chenistry sets made? > there was a time when making explosives was a childhood right of passage along with chemistry sets, making fires, even having a pocket knife.

In the UK, both are now illegal, can't even sell a knife to anybody under 18, same with glue and many things above and beyond alcohol and tobacco. Equally, having a knife in public, would be mandatory jail in the UK in the current climate. For a child, they would be taken into care and some serious nightmares for the parents from social services and the police. As for explosives, all the above, but far worse. By defa…

tesco sells gunpowder perfectly legally in the form of fireworks

(but yes you have to be 18)

Re: U.S. teens are spending less time with their friends in person

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Really? I feel like peak instant messenger time was around 2001 or so... I wonder if it has to do with how old we are?

Peak for you was likely when you were a teen. But overall? In 2001 computers weren't ubiquitous nor portable. Middle-class kids were on IM on their desktops and maybe laptops for max a few hours per day. Now kids have phones for IM all day and night.

The grandparent comment was saying that 2006-2008 was peak instant messenger, and people using messengers on phones were certainly not common during those years.

Re: U.S. teens are spending less time with their friends in person

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So true, in essence driving them into online friend interactions. Makes you wonder what life will be like for children 50 years from now, and how that would compare with today. After there was a time when making explosives was a childhood right of passage along with chemistry sets, making fires, even having a pocket knife. Today, such common activities would not end well at all, however innocent the intention. These…

50 years from now teens will have a subscription to curated experiences for them to get together in-person for while their typical interpersonal interactions will happen over the Internet where it’s nice with a relatively null marginal cost.

> 50 years from now

This sounds like 5 years from now to me, if not today in large part

Re: U.S. teens are spending less time with their friends in person

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> It turns out that today’s teens are socializing with friends in fundamentally different ways – and also happen to be the loneliest generation on record.

This is a very sad observation.

(as I sit at a computer, not looking at anyone, and type these words)

Re: U.S. teens are spending less time with their friends in person

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Probably advent of instant messengers made them feel less lonely, culminating around 2006-2008 when modern social networks really took off, but peaking in today's result of every post on fb/twitch/instagram engendering social anxiety and thus 'loneliness'.

I reckon you're right. This was peak Yahoo Instant Messenger time, and it launched in 1998, just before the graph starts moving downwards.

It is a shame YIM is gone now; I lost contact with a lot of people where that was our main form of communication.

Re: U.S. teens are spending less time with their friends in person

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This is becoming more of a problem, at least in the city I live. Greenspaces and public parks are being replaced with condos and apartment complexes with their own walled off private courtyards and such. Parks, little groves of trees and stuff are the kinds of places we'd hang out as teenagers a lot.

Which city is that? Most cities are unwilling to sell off public parks to private developers. Do you have specific examples of parks that were built over and not replaced with something accessible to the public?

In South Australia there was recently protests to stop a parklands getting turned in to a supermarket. I never heard what ended up happening there but the council was pushing hard to get it converted because "Shoppers are demanding more choice"

Re: U.S. teens are spending less time with their friends in person

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Part of the issue, I think is that teenagers are more restricted by parents, laws, and business owners than they used to be. As with younger children, parents are less likely now than in past decades to allow their teenage children to travel alone or hang out in groups without adults present. Legal restrictions compound the issue, with curfew laws being increasingly common, as well as increased driving ages and gradu…

For some maybe but for my son and all his friends they just rather be on their phone.

i dont understand it personally

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