The reason that JavaScript build tooling is so complex and introduces so much overhead is that the ecosystem's culture is fundamentally broken. Every single one of these tools is a raging dumpster fire because it's built on top of all of these layers of low-quality interdependent crap.
I'm increasingly moving towards module-type script tags and standard ES modules everywhere, with no build step during development. It's still challenging to use node-targeted modules in this fashion, so I really do appreciate that people are working on finding ways to make it work. I just wish that we could do it without pulling in so much third-party code and the large surface area for failure and security problems that go with it.