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Friedman's example is more an illustration that when we want to design a replacement for a working system, there is often a lot more complexity than expected - reinvented wheels are often square. Your example ends up with a piece of charcoal that doesn't have an eraser, gives you slivers, gets charcoal all over, has to be burnt every time you need to sharpen it (with a market-produced lighter or matches), doesn't wor…
you don't need a lighter to make fire, and you don't need to sharpen, you regrind. j2ee is an example of mass mistook for an example of good. It was taught as the ultimate goal to marvel at the complexity of the remote objects.
ps: if I had to glorify something it's globalization incentives to improve metrology. Precision is what gives you modern things.