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...that's a much more common case than you seem to imply, and your insistence that your marriage choice is some sort of an argument here only increases the likelihood.
Sorry, but this is an intellectual lazy argument that undermines discourse. Highlighting a close personal relationship like a marriage that spans cultures isn’t the same as the “some of my best friends are black” trope. It’s a useful context that implies a deeper understanding of differences between cultures and thinking. I have nothing to add about restaurants, but I would illustrate this by my experience growing up…
An old co-worker of mine that we all disliked would constantly call his Vietnamese wife is “war bride.”