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Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos and Wife MacKenzie Are Divorcing
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#22It's a bit TMZ to have this on HN, but the big tech question is what ownership stake does the ex-wife have on Amazon? Assuming they didn't have a pre-nup, does she get 50% of his stake in Amazon? Does she get a board seat? That could have deep implications for Amazon if for example she decides to sell that ownership stake and dilutes Jeff Bezos' control.
If that's how the system works, isn't that an incentive for the partner, the wife in this case, to divorce their spouse to get increased control? I don't know how much control she has at the moment being married to the person that actually owns the stocks, but if she gets 50% in a divorce that sounds like a financial jackpot. That's akin to state sponsored theft IMO.
I don't understand this comment. Marriage is not a social convention, it's a legal contract. Saying that she won a jackpot or somehow did something devious shows a huge level of misunderstanding.
Re: Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos and Wife MacKenzie Are Divorcing
#23My first reaction: "Why is this even news?!?" Then after I RTFA... "The billionaire executive announced the news Wednesday ... in a tweet signed by both of them." Oh. Despite that, I'm not sure what there is for us at HN to discuss. Maybe how divorce effects successful businesses?
I hate the gossipy implications of these stories, and they're legitimately sad news, but there is plenty to discuss that is relevant to HN
- How this could impact Amazon, Blue Origin, etc
- How challenging relationships are
- How difficult it is to stay together through major life changes, in this case they married before Amazon and are splitting now with Amazon being one of the worlds largest companies... imagine that journey together?
- How divorce/breakups effect people
- How relationships/divorce/breakups effect businesses, financial decisions
etc
Re: Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos and Wife MacKenzie Are Divorcing
#24Earlier quoted context omitted.
If that's how the system works, isn't that an incentive for the partner, the wife in this case, to divorce their spouse to get increased control? I don't know how much control she has at the moment being married to the person that actually owns the stocks, but if she gets 50% in a divorce that sounds like a financial jackpot. That's akin to state sponsored theft IMO.
> I don't know how much control she has at the moment being married to the person that actually owns the stocks, but if she gets 50% in a divorce that sounds like a financial jackpot. That's akin to state sponsored theft IMO. I don't understand this comment. Marriage is not a social convention, it's a legal contract. Saying that she won a jackpot or somehow did something devious shows a huge level of misunderstanding…
Re: Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos and Wife MacKenzie Are Divorcing
#25My first reaction: "Why is this even news?!?" Then after I RTFA... "The billionaire executive announced the news Wednesday ... in a tweet signed by both of them." Oh. Despite that, I'm not sure what there is for us at HN to discuss. Maybe how divorce effects successful businesses?
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#26flagged! let's keep hacker news an ivory tower, ok?
Re: Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos and Wife MacKenzie Are Divorcing
#27Earlier quoted context omitted.
> I don't know how much control she has at the moment being married to the person that actually owns the stocks, but if she gets 50% in a divorce that sounds like a financial jackpot. That's akin to state sponsored theft IMO. I don't understand this comment. Marriage is not a social convention, it's a legal contract. Saying that she won a jackpot or somehow did something devious shows a huge level of misunderstanding…
My point is that if she stays married she has no control over the company, if she divorces and gets 50% of her husband's stocks she gets a lot of control. Close to $50 billion last time I checked. That's a legal contract that makes no sense, why would anyone stay married if they could gain $x billion from a divorce?
> why would anyone stay married if they could gain $x billion from a divorce?
Why not? Two people share a pool of $50b (obviously it's not _that_ simple). Seems like plenty to me. Divorce means you are 1 person with your own $25b pool. Unless she was somehow prevented from using the shared pool of money I'm not seeing a huge benefit here. If her goals with money were so drastically different than that of her husband's then I think that's as valid a reason for divorce as any: diverging goals and interests.
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#28Earlier quoted context omitted.
My point is that if she stays married she has no control over the company, if she divorces and gets 50% of her husband's stocks she gets a lot of control. Close to $50 billion last time I checked. That's a legal contract that makes no sense, why would anyone stay married if they could gain $x billion from a divorce?
From my perspective, his wife was there to help enable the creation of Amazon. Jeff Bezos entered a contract when he got married where he believed an equal division of assets made sense. He apparently believed that contract made sense for 25 years. Who are we to say now that she shouldn't be entitled to half? > why would anyone stay married if they could gain $x billion from a divorce? Why not? Two people share a poo…
I don't know what she did or didn't do, so I don't want to discuss this case specifically. But the idea that your wife or husband contributes half of your work is not something I agree with. I understand that if one of them spent their whole married life prioritizing their home and family instead of their career so the other one could focus on theirs it makes sense to divide the assets using other metrics than who payed for it. But there have to be a limit, someone spending their days at home or out shopping is not worth millions or billions of their partner's money. After all, choosing to not focus on your own career is your choice.
Do you feel the same about negative things married people create? Should spouses share prison sentences if one of them commit crimes, like financial scams? If he would have been heavily in debt, should she share that too?
> diverging goals and interests.
I agree that's a valid reason for divorce. I don't agree that she should be entitled to 50% of his property (or that he should get 50% of hers, but it's a bit unequal in this situation).
Re: Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos and Wife MacKenzie Are Divorcing
#29Earlier quoted context omitted.
From my perspective, his wife was there to help enable the creation of Amazon. Jeff Bezos entered a contract when he got married where he believed an equal division of assets made sense. He apparently believed that contract made sense for 25 years. Who are we to say now that she shouldn't be entitled to half? > why would anyone stay married if they could gain $x billion from a divorce? Why not? Two people share a poo…
> From my perspective, his wife was there to help enable the creation of Amazon. I don't know what she did or didn't do, so I don't want to discuss this case specifically. But the idea that your wife or husband contributes half of your work is not something I agree with. I understand that if one of them spent their whole married life prioritizing their home and family instead of their career so the other one could fo…
I have a hard time believing anyone's time is "worth millions or billions".
Re: Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos and Wife MacKenzie Are Divorcing
#30Earlier quoted context omitted.
From my perspective, his wife was there to help enable the creation of Amazon. Jeff Bezos entered a contract when he got married where he believed an equal division of assets made sense. He apparently believed that contract made sense for 25 years. Who are we to say now that she shouldn't be entitled to half? > why would anyone stay married if they could gain $x billion from a divorce? Why not? Two people share a poo…
> From my perspective, his wife was there to help enable the creation of Amazon. I don't know what she did or didn't do, so I don't want to discuss this case specifically. But the idea that your wife or husband contributes half of your work is not something I agree with. I understand that if one of them spent their whole married life prioritizing their home and family instead of their career so the other one could fo…
How do you know what would have been accomplished without that person's spouse managing the home? What if Jeff Bezos couldn't devote nearly as much time to Amazon if he had to take kids to appointments or be there when a contractor was at the house? And what if those diversions caused Amazon to be a flop? I would say that those contributions which were key to the success of the company absolutely do entitle you to 50%.
Now, I do think there's a legal argument to be made if that is clearly not the case, but a healthy person should have cut ties in that type of relationship before wealth was developed anyway. Presumably staying in the relationship after 25 years and after the accumulation of so much wealth meant that both parties were fine with an equal division of the assets.