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Students are turning to sex work for extra money

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Re: Students are turning to sex work for extra money

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post #7

Lol, so someone's 'learning difficulties' prevent her from getting and holding onto a simplistic part-time work, 'forcing' her to do prostitution, but does not prevent doing full time education? Something is wrong there.

Universities are somewhat better than shit job employers at complying with Equality Act 2010 duties to make reasonable adjustments for people with disabilities.

Re: Students are turning to sex work for extra money

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post #10

They blame this on higher student expenses yet clearly only women are able to get money from sex so how are the men able to survive? Why not just be honest? Women are selling their bodies not because they need to but because they want to.

> Women are selling their bodies not because they need to but because they want to. How about "because they need to AND can" (whereas the men might also need to, but cannot, there's not as much of a market).

Lolwut. You think there’s not a market for gay prostitutes ? Uhh... there is.

Re: Students are turning to sex work for extra money

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post #20

Earlier quoted context omitted.

zero hours contracts and gig economy shit jobs.

Got any evidence for that?

https://www.ons.gov.uk/employmentandlabourmarket/peopleinwor...

> 18.7% of people on “zero-hours contracts” are in full-time education, compared with 2.3% of other people in employment

See also

https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/...

https://www.ons.gov.uk/employmentandlabourmarket/peopleinwor...

Re: Students are turning to sex work for extra money

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I’m in a devils advocate kinda mood, so hopefully people here can take a spirited prod:

So where does equality fit into this? I don’t think this phenomena is so rampant that double digit percentages of women are doing this (though I have no idea), so this whole thing probably isn’t that big of a deal. But honestly, if this entitles women to an easy and maybe even comfortable way of making big dollars in their youth/lack of talent, what will we do to enable young men to also pay for school/living/etc in their youth? I mean if I could send some self destructing photos to older women in college with no social/professional ramifications and make 1-3k a month, I would never have worked the shitty part time jobs I did. Doesn’t really seem like an egalitarian idea for half of the population to be able to take the easy path while the other toils away.

Re: Students are turning to sex work for extra money

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They blame this on higher student expenses yet clearly only women are able to get money from sex so how are the men able to survive? Why not just be honest? Women are selling their bodies not because they need to but because they want to.

> clearly only women are able to get money from sex While the opportunities are greater for women, men also get paid for sex (predominantly, though not exclusively, by other men.)

I've known male sex workers who exclusively service women. Their clientele were predominantly older, wealthy women. Turns out that powerful women are just as lonely as powerful men... and that they similarly enjoy the freedom of a financial arrangement over an romantic entanglement.

The solution to this apparent inequality is... hire/promote more women into executive roles.

Re: Students are turning to sex work for extra money

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post #7

Lol, so someone's 'learning difficulties' prevent her from getting and holding onto a simplistic part-time work, 'forcing' her to do prostitution, but does not prevent doing full time education? Something is wrong there.

Unpopular opinion incoming:

I’ve known girls who have done sex work. Mostly smaller things like selling used clothes, or pretending to be into a guy for gifts, but a few who straight up were prostitutes. They always had a story of “having no other choice”. The reality every time (again, from those I knew. Not trying to generalize and claim I know them all) was that they weren’t “forced” into it at all. They just preferred that work because they made way more money than what they’d do working and it was easier. But they didn’t like the fact that sex work would negatively impact their future (jobs, relationships, etc), so they came up with victimhood stories to justify it. No idea if that’s what’s happening here, but if I had to wager money I’d wager it’s along those lines based on my experiences.

I see a few others in here mentioning that universities handle learning disabilities. I think if you’re so mentally disabled that you can’t hold a part time job, it’s probably not a great idea to invest 100k into a college education. I don’t know many jobs that require a college degree that are easier to succeed in than working for a min wage job at 10-20 hours a week. So sure, the universities are more accommodating. That’s because they want that 100k pot on your head. If the reality is you can’t hold down part time work for mental disability, I think we need to have yet another discussion on where the ethical line is for universities endenturing students futures for their short term financial gains.

Re: Students are turning to sex work for extra money

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post #7

Lol, so someone's 'learning difficulties' prevent her from getting and holding onto a simplistic part-time work, 'forcing' her to do prostitution, but does not prevent doing full time education? Something is wrong there.

Unpopular opinion incoming: I’ve known girls who have done sex work. Mostly smaller things like selling used clothes, or pretending to be into a guy for gifts, but a few who straight up were prostitutes. They always had a story of “having no other choice”. The reality every time (again, from those I knew. Not trying to generalize and claim I know them all) was that they weren’t “forced” into it at all. They just pref…

I know a lot of women who done sex work and no i can't say this is anyhow negatively reflected on them long term. It must be Eastern European culture where it's almost OK. But pretending you've been 'forced' to do it is stupid and that can actually reflect negatively, for being obvious bullshit.

Re: Students are turning to sex work for extra money

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post #7

Lol, so someone's 'learning difficulties' prevent her from getting and holding onto a simplistic part-time work, 'forcing' her to do prostitution, but does not prevent doing full time education? Something is wrong there.

Unpopular opinion incoming: I’ve known girls who have done sex work. Mostly smaller things like selling used clothes, or pretending to be into a guy for gifts, but a few who straight up were prostitutes. They always had a story of “having no other choice”. The reality every time (again, from those I knew. Not trying to generalize and claim I know them all) was that they weren’t “forced” into it at all. They just pref…

And yes, you are absolutely right here. Being 'inclusive' for a university is a joke: like, you help these people spend the money they don't have, knowing they'll get nothing in return. Now that's the moral problem, not sex work!
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