Should those of us who aren't top 5%/didn't go to a top school just find another industry, one where sub-perfect work doesn't actively make other people's jobs harder?
Impostor syndrome strikes men just as hard as women in technical interviews
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Re: Impostor syndrome strikes men just as hard as women in technical interviews
#12I don't even know how to study. I sometimes consider it, but have never spent more than an hour prepping for an interview. :(
It worries me, because I know that interviewing is a skill. But are we not setting folks up to over index on that skill such that they have difficulty with actual job performance?
If anyone knows any literature into that general topic, I'd be very interested in perusing it.
Re: Impostor syndrome strikes men just as hard as women in technical interviews
#13It doesn't help that job ads are wanting "Top 3% only!" or "Only top 1% Ninja Rockstars need apply!". Kind of reminds me of the market for singers or concert pianists, you absolutely need to be the best, even imperceptibly worse makes you unemployable. Should those of us who aren't top 5%/didn't go to a top school just find another industry, one where sub-perfect work doesn't actively make other people's jobs harder?
Re: Impostor syndrome strikes men just as hard as women in technical interviews
#14It doesn't help that job ads are wanting "Top 3% only!" or "Only top 1% Ninja Rockstars need apply!". Kind of reminds me of the market for singers or concert pianists, you absolutely need to be the best, even imperceptibly worse makes you unemployable. Should those of us who aren't top 5%/didn't go to a top school just find another industry, one where sub-perfect work doesn't actively make other people's jobs harder?
Maybe just keep that and learn to be a little more obnoxious in the self-assessments you give to others?
Re: Impostor syndrome strikes men just as hard as women in technical interviews
#15The practice interview point strikes me as odd. In large, because I have never done one. Do folks really typically do that many practice interviews? I don't even know how to study. I sometimes consider it, but have never spent more than an hour prepping for an interview. :( It worries me, because I know that interviewing is a skill. But are we not setting folks up to over index on that skill such that they have diffi…
Re: Impostor syndrome strikes men just as hard as women in technical interviews
#16The practice interview point strikes me as odd. In large, because I have never done one. Do folks really typically do that many practice interviews? I don't even know how to study. I sometimes consider it, but have never spent more than an hour prepping for an interview. :( It worries me, because I know that interviewing is a skill. But are we not setting folks up to over index on that skill such that they have diffi…
Re: Impostor syndrome strikes men just as hard as women in technical interviews
#17It doesn't help that job ads are wanting "Top 3% only!" or "Only top 1% Ninja Rockstars need apply!". Kind of reminds me of the market for singers or concert pianists, you absolutely need to be the best, even imperceptibly worse makes you unemployable. Should those of us who aren't top 5%/didn't go to a top school just find another industry, one where sub-perfect work doesn't actively make other people's jobs harder?
The trick is these companies arent hiring top 1% talent, they're hiring top 1% interviewing talent.
Re: Impostor syndrome strikes men just as hard as women in technical interviews
#18It doesn't help that job ads are wanting "Top 3% only!" or "Only top 1% Ninja Rockstars need apply!". Kind of reminds me of the market for singers or concert pianists, you absolutely need to be the best, even imperceptibly worse makes you unemployable. Should those of us who aren't top 5%/didn't go to a top school just find another industry, one where sub-perfect work doesn't actively make other people's jobs harder?
The trick is these companies arent hiring top 1% talent, they're hiring top 1% interviewing talent.
Re: Impostor syndrome strikes men just as hard as women in technical interviews
#19It doesn't help that job ads are wanting "Top 3% only!" or "Only top 1% Ninja Rockstars need apply!". Kind of reminds me of the market for singers or concert pianists, you absolutely need to be the best, even imperceptibly worse makes you unemployable. Should those of us who aren't top 5%/didn't go to a top school just find another industry, one where sub-perfect work doesn't actively make other people's jobs harder?
Re: Impostor syndrome strikes men just as hard as women in technical interviews
#20Earlier quoted context omitted.
The trick is these companies arent hiring top 1% talent, they're hiring top 1% interviewing talent.
The appropriate response is to ask for a top-1% salary, of course.