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The price difference between a Tahoe and 4Runner or Ranger and Tacoma could probably put a new drive-train in the latter. Buying a Toyota (truck/suv, the used prices for the cars are reasonable) is still paying for maintenance, you're just paying up front instead of over time.
I do my own maintenance in general. You pay extra for not getting stranded on the side of the road and with a 60+ mile commute I'm happy to pay it.
I drive an early 90s shitbox and have an almost exactly 60mi commute. Obviously it would be a massive waste of time to try to keep it in tip top shape at all times but it's really not the stressful "am I going to break down today?" experience that some would think. The main difference between my current shitbox and the variety of late 2000s and early 2010s cars I used to drive for work is that the 90s interior rattles a lot more and there's more wind noise.