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These are some serious allegations. If this is true then DogitalOcean needs to explain themselves. I guess, one should also have backups off site. Relying on just one provider constitutes a single point of failure.
I suspect that any cloud provider has enormous amounts of fraud on it and no tooling is 100% error free. It's also important to note that GDPR has specific exemptions for companies responding suspected security/fraud related issues. I love DO because the performance for the price is great. Also have no issue supporting emerging tech companies with cultures I connect with.
In the digital age, startups and businesses rely on cloud providers for their livelihood. These providers must be reliable and trustworthy, otherwise they shouldn't get a penny.
Also, I'm not intimately familiar with OP's situation, my comments are just common sense generalizations; I think!