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You Want 20% for Handing Me a Muffin? The Awkward Etiquette of iPad Tipping

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Re: You Want 20% for Handing Me a Muffin? The Awkward Etiquette of iPad Tipping

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post #10

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Srsly. Is this actually a problem for anyone?

Considering that every aspect of my banking is now online (including depositing checks), yeah, it is actually kind a hassle to have to keep making trips to one of my bank's ATMs just to refill my supply of small bills so that I can buy coffee.

Are you unable to figure out how to select 'no tip' as well? Sorry but I find this to be a triviality of overprivilege.

Re: You Want 20% for Handing Me a Muffin? The Awkward Etiquette of iPad Tipping

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I don't feel guilt when they swivel that ipad around, more like annoyance. When I'm asked to tip for someone handing me a cup of coffee, I say no tip. We should really be pushing to get away from this relic of slavery, and don't tip unless it's absolutely clear we need to; i.e. at a sit down restaurant.

How is tipping at a sit down restaurant not a relic of slavery? The idea that restaurant personnel earn so little that they need to live on tips is barbarous.

Yet strangely, the loudest voices AGAINST doing away with tipping in favor of a wage are often wait staff themselves.

Re: You Want 20% for Handing Me a Muffin? The Awkward Etiquette of iPad Tipping

#23
Own your privilege and tip the goddamn 15-20%. If you can afford to spend $3 on a coffee, you can afford to spend $3.60 on a coffee. You almost certainly make a lot more than the guy or girl behind the counter. (I love the iPad payment thingy because I always feel guilty never having cash to put in a tip jar.)

Re: You Want 20% for Handing Me a Muffin? The Awkward Etiquette of iPad Tipping

#24
post #17

No guilt. No tip. Never. If they want more than the listed price they should raise the listed price. Social customs/expectations/guilt/whatever be damned. I never tip. Never have, never will.

That's a bit extreme. I hope you don't eat at sit down restaurants often.

Re: You Want 20% for Handing Me a Muffin? The Awkward Etiquette of iPad Tipping

#25

I dislike the tip-at-purchase-time paradigm. I haven't even seen my order yet, how am I supposed to evaluate how much of a tip it warranted? But that gets to the heart of it really: tipping is more about subsidizing payroll than rewarding good service.

DoorDash does this as well, and I don't understand why. Why should I commit to a tip before my order is delivered? At one occasion the delivery guy completely forgot about my delivery until I called 1 hour later saying I still see the food waiting at the restaurant. I still had to pay the tip.

Re: You Want 20% for Handing Me a Muffin? The Awkward Etiquette of iPad Tipping

#26
After losing my keister in the housing bubble I made a deal with myself to never use credit again and to always tip at least 20% to make the world a better place. Pretty much all non-salary jobs are underpaid now by a factor of 2-4 so tips can add up to more than a paycheck. I also like to think that it makes up for the people who undertip or don't tip at all.

Edit: I now have one $2000 expense card that I pay off each month and typically stays under a 50% balance to build my credit.

Re: You Want 20% for Handing Me a Muffin? The Awkward Etiquette of iPad Tipping

#27
post #10

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Srsly. Is this actually a problem for anyone?

Considering that every aspect of my banking is now online (including depositing checks), yeah, it is actually kind a hassle to have to keep making trips to one of my bank's ATMs just to refill my supply of small bills so that I can buy coffee.

I just get $20 cash back when using my debit card for someone every now and then.

Re: You Want 20% for Handing Me a Muffin? The Awkward Etiquette of iPad Tipping

#28

I don't feel guilt when they swivel that ipad around, more like annoyance. When I'm asked to tip for someone handing me a cup of coffee, I say no tip. We should really be pushing to get away from this relic of slavery, and don't tip unless it's absolutely clear we need to; i.e. at a sit down restaurant.

How is tipping at a sit down restaurant not a relic of slavery? The idea that restaurant personnel earn so little that they need to live on tips is barbarous.

That’s a very U.S. thing though.

In most of the EU you tip for good service. IE; only if your food came in a timely fashion, was not mis-prepared or incorrect and if the wait-staff are generally being polite, kind, courteous.

The idea is that you’re rewarding good service, not that your bound by social convention to give a percentage extra on top of what was agreed upon when you read the menu.

While we’re on the subject, the idea of excluding tax on good until you reach checkout is absolutely insane to me.

Re: You Want 20% for Handing Me a Muffin? The Awkward Etiquette of iPad Tipping

#30
post #17

No guilt. No tip. Never. If they want more than the listed price they should raise the listed price. Social customs/expectations/guilt/whatever be damned. I never tip. Never have, never will.

That's a bit extreme. I hope you don't eat at sit down restaurants often.

Or the same one more than once.

Stiffing waiters in the same establishment more than one is a risky proposition at best.

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