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> Also, dark matter doesn't interact much with regular matter, which makes the search even harder. This is (one of the many places) where I get lost. It has mass, so it by definition interacts with anything with mass? Are these particles supposed to be so small and so rare that they can't be measured even at the scale of solar system? (How much dark matter would be in the solar system? What would be the average densi…
As I understand it, gravity is the interaction between things with mass, but it's a weak interaction, thus hard to detect on a particle by particle basis. You might be able to detect if there's an extra potato in a bag because a potato is a whole bunch of particles. But identifying that just a few of those particles are not the regular stuff -- protons, electrons, etc. -- by weighing the bag, would be difficult.
Richard Feynman would tell you that this immense difference is "what's keeping you from not falling through the floor down to the Earth center." Or why the apple hanging on the "few atoms" of its stalk is not falling from the tree, when the summary gravitation of all atoms of the whole Earth are pulling it down.
Or, again to compare such big numbers, there are "only" 10^86 atoms in the whole Universe observable to us! (2)
1) https://www.physicsforums.com/threads/how-are-the-gravitatio...
2) https://www.universetoday.com/36302/atoms-in-the-universe/