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Ask HN: What was the one book that you read and it actually changed your life?

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Re: Ask HN: What was the one book that you read and it actually changed your life?

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I don't think any book has significantly changed my life. I've read a pretty wide range of books, and remain basically the same schmuck I've always been.

That is quite sad. You should read some of the books in this thread. I know there are at least 10 life changing books for me.

Re: Ask HN: What was the one book that you read and it actually changed your life?

#112
33 Strategies of War, Robert Greene.

It's about dealing with conflict. Resource management, especially in regards to conflict. Emotional management on a group level. And it applies to conflicts with yourself as well.

All of us have some kind of conflict to deal with, whether it's an unruly client, bullying boss, emotionally draining relative, burnt out staff. The book covers strategies in dealing with them. It even starts with covering how to identify people who may be enemies acting as friends.

While it sounds aggressive, a lot of it covers on how wars are best won without ever having any fighting. Sometimes you can just discourage people from attacking you. Sometimes you have to decide to withdraw, to engage, to intimidate, or to handle it from a much higher level, distracting or draining their resources before they can attack you.

Re: Ask HN: What was the one book that you read and it actually changed your life?

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33 Strategies of War, Robert Greene. It's about dealing with conflict. Resource management, especially in regards to conflict. Emotional management on a group level. And it applies to conflicts with yourself as well. All of us have some kind of conflict to deal with, whether it's an unruly client, bullying boss, emotionally draining relative, burnt out staff. The book covers strategies in dealing with them. It even s…

Sir, I’m currently reading non violent communications by marshall rosenberg, do you find any similar idea ?

Re: Ask HN: What was the one book that you read and it actually changed your life?

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Buddha's Little Finger (aka Clay Machine-Gun) / Чапаев и Пустота (Chapayev and Void) (1996) by Victor Pelevin

it helped me trough my mental illness, also other works by him are very strong.

Also a very good translation to lithuanian of Understanding Media: The Extensions of Man a 1964 book by Marshall McLuhan

Re: Ask HN: What was the one book that you read and it actually changed your life?

#116

The 4-Hour Workweek - made me quit my job and start a business. Since then I've been able to travel internationally for the first time in my life while working as much as I want.

I read the 4 hour work week when we (wife and myself) were already travelling and working on our own companies (this was when it just came out first by the way); we both scaled down to working max 1 day a week, found that that made us create more and more projects. Found out we really do not like not working. What kind of company did you start?

Could you elaborate on your lifestyle, please? What kind of job do you do on that max 1 day a week? How do you spend the rest of your time? How far do you travel? Do you stay long at one place or you'll constantly on the run? Do you have kids? If no - do you plan to have them? If yes - how do they manage with that lifestyle? Having your knowledge and experience, what would you have done differently? Thanks in advance!

Re: Ask HN: What was the one book that you read and it actually changed your life?

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

I would second the 4-Hour Workweek, yet I am still searching for a profitable idea. How long did it take you from reading the book to reaching the ability to quit your job?

It took me about four years. It would've been faster if I knew then what I know now.

Care to summarize what you know now that you didn't know then?

Re: Ask HN: What was the one book that you read and it actually changed your life?

#119
Learning OpenCV from O'Reilly

Helped me a lot getting to know computer vision from a practical aspect and became one of the best professional in my department and got to work on so much futuristic projects that would have be seen only in some film.

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