My experience with ROS has been suboptimal. It's a collection of incompatible, outdated and buggy tools that communicate with each other via a single-point of failure (roscore) using a pub/sub mechanism. Furthermore they use their own build system (catkin, WHY?), define their own IDL (WHY?), use their own dependency system (rosdep, WHY?) and even mess with your Bash environment. I appreciate their effort and it is re…
Regarding catkin, I actually think it's an OK solution with some nice features. It's mostly a set of CMake macros that work with a certain conventional structure for packages. If you look at some other (newer) C++ package managers out there, like Hunter or FIPS, it's essentially the same idea. And catkin also supports Python code [1]. It's far from ideal, but it's a hard problem. Like many things in ROS, it's a "worse-is-better" kind of solution.
[1] Not as well as it could, re:pip integration and such; ROS2 supposedly has a better solution.