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I'm Wil Wheaton. I Live with Chronic Depression and Anxiety. I Am Not Ashamed

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Re: I'm Wil Wheaton. I Live with Chronic Depression and Anxiety. I Am Not Ashamed

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post #9

Is there any evidence that talking about depression openly, or talk-type therapies, help to reduce depression? My experience of colleagues talking openly about these things is that it becomes a self-perpetuating cycle, and ultimately makes things worse.

I think you're only thinking that because they're letting it be more visible in order to get support.

The alternative is that they put on a mask to function in society, because they don't want to be a burden, all the while dying inside...

Until they unexpectedly disappear, because they've committed suicide.

Re: I'm Wil Wheaton. I Live with Chronic Depression and Anxiety. I Am Not Ashamed

#12
> as a white, heterosexual, cisgender man in America, I live life on the lowest difficulty setting — with the Celebrity cheat enabled

And yet men kill themselves at a much higher rate than women, which empirically suggests (in the west) that the equivalent female difficulty setting is actually lower. Few dispute this argument when applied to the higher suicide rates among LGBT people.

Re: I'm Wil Wheaton. I Live with Chronic Depression and Anxiety. I Am Not Ashamed

#13
>And as we were walking I just started to cry and she asked me, “what’s wrong?”

>I said “I just realized that I don’t feel bad and I just realized that I’m not existing, I’m living.”

I can't imagine a bigger turn off for your wife than this. Yikes! You're supposed to be the rock dude, save those thoughts for the lads.

Then again this is the guy who asked his wife to lick some guys face while he's posing in the background all scrunched up. https://pbs.twimg.com/media/CMToPQVWUAAD0h2.jpg - Pathetic!

Re: I'm Wil Wheaton. I Live with Chronic Depression and Anxiety. I Am Not Ashamed

#14
post #9

Is there any evidence that talking about depression openly, or talk-type therapies, help to reduce depression? My experience of colleagues talking openly about these things is that it becomes a self-perpetuating cycle, and ultimately makes things worse.

I think it depends on the individual. Sometimes talking about these things helps, sometimes it doesn't. It generally helps me.

Re: I'm Wil Wheaton. I Live with Chronic Depression and Anxiety. I Am Not Ashamed

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>And as we were walking I just started to cry and she asked me, “what’s wrong?” >I said “I just realized that I don’t feel bad and I just realized that I’m not existing, I’m living.” I can't imagine a bigger turn off for your wife than this. Yikes! You're supposed to be the rock dude, save those thoughts for the lads. Then again this is the guy who asked his wife to lick some guys face while he's posing in the backgr…

What the fuck?

Re: I'm Wil Wheaton. I Live with Chronic Depression and Anxiety. I Am Not Ashamed

#16
post #8

This article strikes me as partially honest and raw and then the other to be very planned and calculated. Let's get this out now: I'm glad he finally sought help, and that he's getting it. The things about this article that bug me: 1. He starts off with the article with a "trigger warning." The title is about depression and anxiety. Having a 'trigger warning' is either insulting to the reader, or it's a weird posturi…

> My life is, by every objective measurement, very very good.

I found this statement silly too. He's getting older. His body is slowly deteriorating. His opportunities are dwindling. His best days are probably behind him. That's reason enough for depression by itself.

Re: I'm Wil Wheaton. I Live with Chronic Depression and Anxiety. I Am Not Ashamed

#17

>And as we were walking I just started to cry and she asked me, “what’s wrong?” >I said “I just realized that I don’t feel bad and I just realized that I’m not existing, I’m living.” I can't imagine a bigger turn off for your wife than this. Yikes! You're supposed to be the rock dude, save those thoughts for the lads. Then again this is the guy who asked his wife to lick some guys face while he's posing in the backgr…

Ssshh, it's 2018.

Re: I'm Wil Wheaton. I Live with Chronic Depression and Anxiety. I Am Not Ashamed

#18
post #17

>And as we were walking I just started to cry and she asked me, “what’s wrong?” >I said “I just realized that I don’t feel bad and I just realized that I’m not existing, I’m living.” I can't imagine a bigger turn off for your wife than this. Yikes! You're supposed to be the rock dude, save those thoughts for the lads. Then again this is the guy who asked his wife to lick some guys face while he's posing in the backgr…

Ssshh, it's 2018.

It being $CURRENT_YEAR doesn't change a thing, there are universal truths.

Re: I'm Wil Wheaton. I Live with Chronic Depression and Anxiety. I Am Not Ashamed

#19
This guy has a lot of stories about how Shatner was rude to him without cause. Well he has turned into shatner and is rude without cause to many people, including myself.

I now think his real psychological problem is that he’s a sociopathic narcissist and this entire article is just manipulation.

Wow, downvoted and flagged Within literally 5 seconds of posting.

Only certain opinions are allowed here?

Re: I'm Wil Wheaton. I Live with Chronic Depression and Anxiety. I Am Not Ashamed

#20
post #8

This article strikes me as partially honest and raw and then the other to be very planned and calculated. Let's get this out now: I'm glad he finally sought help, and that he's getting it. The things about this article that bug me: 1. He starts off with the article with a "trigger warning." The title is about depression and anxiety. Having a 'trigger warning' is either insulting to the reader, or it's a weird posturi…

maybe he genuinely believes that 1) and 2) are important. or maybe he doesn't want to get trashed in the comments, so he just throws the easy disclaimers out front. either is fine, imo.

3) and 4), maybe you have a point there...

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