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No. That's just a completely unworkable and unreasonable demand.
Wow. So asking someone for a bit of self control and being a responsible adult is now considered an unreasonable request. Because it’s so difficult to at least not have unprotected sex when you know you’re not in a position to support a child. We are truly lost as a society.
How LeBron James' new public school is the first of its kind
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no but i'll absolutely complain about the way the Bill and Melinda Gates foundation has changed the school system in the US.
I'm not familiar with their influence, but I'd love to learn about it! Please link me to more details.
Common Core specific: https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/how-bill-gates-pulle...
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For what it's worth, children from at-risk families achieve better education when the father ends up incarcerated. So we can absolutely make a case for "ripping families apart" and against supporting "families as they are". > My findings suggest that on average, parents who are on the margin of incarceration are likely to reduce the amount of schooling their child attains if they instead remain in the household. This…
You summarized the paper as, “children from at-risk families achieve better education when the father ends up incarcerated.” The one study you’re citing here might suggest your summary statement if “parents on the margin of incarceration” was equivalent to “children from at-risk families”. But those are very different concepts. You can have an at risk family just by being low-income. Certainly many low-income familie…
They are overlapping. Moreover, "parents on the margin of incarceration" are an extremely significant group of parents for whom the discussion of "supporting families as is" vs. "ripping apart" is meaningful at all. For most poor families it's irrelevant as there's no grounds for dissolution.
I believe you can't deny that it's much more common and publicly acceptable to claim that such a criminal parent should be shown leniency when possible, because having no parent at all is horrible. Yet we have evidence to the contrary.
I concede that this may be inapplicable for some other cases (or at least that we have no proof that it would be applicable yet). However, I personally think that those "at risk families" where parents create an atmosphere that's detrimental for stydying (by being aggressive, anti-intellectual etc.) may well be worse than outright criminal ones, and I believe it'd be proven in due time.
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> we can absolutely make a case for "ripping families apart" I don't see how that isn't a suggestion of a course of action -- one that that is a blatant misuse of a study (with small effects only measured over a small time period) toward ideological ends, i.e. supporting the seizure of children of disadvantaged parents. Moreover, I refuse to have an evidence-based discussion about whether certain people deserve human…
I am not going to enter a discussion on the merits of the underlying argument because you have already acknowledged that you have no interest in doing so. Returning to the meta discussion. Let us trace the course of the conversation in question: neuland: ...focus on building a better foster / adoption system and encouraging people to use it house9-2: wouldn't it be better to support the families as they are? help imp…
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Mostly this ^. As a parent you want to get to work on time. So staggering when school starts is both good for traffic and parents’ sanity.
>Mostly this ^. As a parent you want to get to work on time. So staggering when school starts is both good for traffic and parents’ sanity. Part of it is the assumption that kids can't get to school on their own. I was walking by myself to school when I was 6. And in a lot of places the built environment is such that kids really can't get to school on their own. Schools are either far away, public transit isn't possi…
Nairobi would probably have questionable security compared to the US, but I’m guessing we are probably judged quite harsh here in US.
There was just this article other day where a woman faced jail time or massive fines because she left her “not-so-baby” baby in the car. My dad used to leave us in the car all the time with windows open.
I can’t do any of that. Mostly because I may end up in jail. That’s the reality of US.
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Why not just public? It makes perfect sense.
Because it's literally the opposite meaning to most other countries.
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You summarized the paper as, “children from at-risk families achieve better education when the father ends up incarcerated.” The one study you’re citing here might suggest your summary statement if “parents on the margin of incarceration” was equivalent to “children from at-risk families”. But those are very different concepts. You can have an at risk family just by being low-income. Certainly many low-income familie…
> those are very different concepts They are overlapping. Moreover, "parents on the margin of incarceration" are an extremely significant group of parents for whom the discussion of "supporting families as is" vs. "ripping apart" is meaningful at all. For most poor families it's irrelevant as there's no grounds for dissolution. I believe you can't deny that it's much more common and publicly acceptable to claim that…
For most non-violent crimes, this study was unconvincing (generally speaking I’d like to see incarceration alternatives for non-violent crime, why send people to crime school at tax-payer expense?).
I agree that for these groups, there’s an elevated chance that the parent is actively harming their family. I just don’t think it would be statistically justified to separate families that aren’t criminal.
And, of course, it would be deeply inhumane.
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They are responsible though. Unless you want to take away decision making power from a person. This realization does not have to incur any sort of "well you deserve this outcome and sucks to be you" sort of logic, however. It is the parent's fault for creating the situation, but society can choose to bail one out for poor decision making.
Are you trying to bury your head in the sand? My situation is probably drastically determined by some stranger 200 years ago who decided hopping in a pile of potatoes on barge headed for the US was a good idea. Thank you distant relative, that was a genius idea! The point isn't to act like people aren't responsible for their own actions, of course they are. The point is to be realistic about how much of our situation…
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Because it's literally the opposite meaning to most other countries.
No, it's opposite of Britain, most countries are in line with the USA in this regard, including former British Colonies like Australia. Britians history is the only reason their version sense, it's very unintuitive.
Britain's railway signalling is crazy because Britain's railways pre-date railway signalling. If you build a brand new railway you definitely shouldn't repeat mistakes from the 19th century.
Britain drives on the Left. Should you drive on the left too? Only if your neighbors do.
But on the other hand Britain decided to buy up all the doctors and hospitals and stuff to give everybody healthcare and that's worked out pretty well.