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Right, seems I misunderstood it last time I looked at that spec or was misremembering, re-reading it one could of course point to an external service. Is there an actual implementation of that in the wild, that I e.g. could use with my e-mail address at my domain? Even support for discovery at all seemed basically non-existent.
It's already available if you use any of the major email provider. If you want to provide it from your own domain, it's perfectly doable, but it takes a lot of work to setup. This won't be usable from other sites though because they won't trust yoursite.com Discovery is non existent because it makes zero sense in practice.
Why do they have to trust it at all?