Are you actually deaf? Or is lying to get exceptions that are meant for the disabled actually legal?
"I'm hard of hearing." Prove that I'm not. At that point it's one dark pattern against another.
First of all, he said "deaf", not "hard of hearing".
Second ̶o̶n̶e̶, so you're fine with lying to get services you otherwise wouldn't if no one can actualy prove you're lying?