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Thanks for dragging down a good conversation. Sheesh. Ladies and gentlemen, once you click "reply", you will see a flag button for individual comments. Use it responsibly.
I used to think there was a HackerNews community, I used to think that I was a member of it, and I used to be proud to be such. Seeing this comment get downvoted and its parent upvoted with what I can only view as teenaged boys giggling over some smut, I see that there is no single, coherent community with a shared core of beliefs and standards. And maturity. It's a painful lesson.
Q. What do you do to relax?
A. Play poker, masturbate and play with my cat.
What's the big deal here? All healthy fun activities to relax.