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Worries Over a 2-to-1 Ratio: Where the Boys Aren't

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Re: Worries Over a 2-to-1 Ratio: Where the Boys Aren't

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> people seriously looking to have sex in college seem to be in the minority This is, reciprocally, a mind-blowingly alien worldview, completely contrary to an assumption I've only now realized was even an assumption, and had previously just taken as part of the fabric of the universe. I think it may be more plausible there's some difference in terminology here and we're not talking about the same thing. I would like…

Well I asked around and I guess you're right. So I guess I'm going to learn more from this "alien" encounter than you are :-) Two different but related issues: me, and what I think (thought) of other people. I'm not very social, myself. I've occasionally wished I were more social, but it's generic loneliness. I've never personally been in a situation where I seriously-in-real-life tried to get or have sex. I've got m…

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Re: Worries Over a 2-to-1 Ratio: Where the Boys Aren't

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post #20

Earlier quoted context omitted.

> people seriously looking to have sex in college seem to be in the minority This is, reciprocally, a mind-blowingly alien worldview, completely contrary to an assumption I've only now realized was even an assumption, and had previously just taken as part of the fabric of the universe. I think it may be more plausible there's some difference in terminology here and we're not talking about the same thing. I would like…

Well I asked around and I guess you're right. So I guess I'm going to learn more from this "alien" encounter than you are :-) Two different but related issues: me, and what I think (thought) of other people. I'm not very social, myself. I've occasionally wished I were more social, but it's generic loneliness. I've never personally been in a situation where I seriously-in-real-life tried to get or have sex. I've got m…

I hesitate to dig something like this up, because a lot of people taking this road take it very wrong. I am not a student, but what fragments I've critically accepted have proven very interesting and widely applicable. In general it has been unfortunately framed, and there are competing and incompatible strains of thought and attitudes within it. Tease out the right stuff: it was made for you.

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ctoxh/new_to_sedd...

Read critically and act. Stay yourself and don't take it too far.

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