Forget user groups. Forget craigslist. Forget the internet. 1. Do stuff: Pick up projects. Do open source work. Volunteer. 2. Network: Meet people in person. "Finding a mentor" is a misnomer. You don't "find" a mentor any more than you find a girlfriend or spouse. A relationship with someone who can mentor you is the byproduct of everything else you do. Get out there and get busy. You may be surprised at the people w…
That's not true, I've found at least two people on HN by simply approaching them and asking them if they were willing to teach me a concept and both of them agreed readily (and have shown considerable patience with me).
If there is one place where simply asking people that are skilled if they would please teach you pays off it's here.