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It depends, if you are in a minimum wage job then absolutely try and raise your income and improving skills is the obvious way to do it. On the other hand if you are already progressing through a career I suspect it's easier to trim spending than work further up the ladder. The Starbucks thing is a red herring, most people overspend on cars, housing and food.
One can literally not overspend on food. Good food (i.e. fresh fruit, vegetables, good meat and fish, etc) are 100% worth the investment in my view. But to each their own priorities in life.
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#82The only way to be truly happy is to be ignorant of all the ills we are inflicting on the world and each other. Once you attain this awareness as part of growing up, the only way to drown out the awareness of this deplorable state of the human existence, is to numb the mind with drugs or to damage the brain to such a degree that it stops mattering to you.
Does it require ignorance of those ills, or can knowledge of them but with resignation be sufficient?
Re: Ask HN: What do you believe that most people don't?
#83The only way to be truly happy is to be ignorant of all the ills we are inflicting on the world and each other. Once you attain this awareness as part of growing up, the only way to drown out the awareness of this deplorable state of the human existence, is to numb the mind with drugs or to damage the brain to such a degree that it stops mattering to you.
I think there are two sides to this. Either ignore it, or embrace it and accept it as part of the human experience. If you accept that suffering is inevitable, you recognize the positives in life more readily. To me, this approach allows me to be present in life, as opposed to numb with drugs, waiting to expire.
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#84That there is no free will. (and a few things deducted from that, like how anyone is innocent in some way and how this relates to criminal justice (protect society, resocialize, but never revenge)).
I agree completely! It is my experience also that things just happen without anybody being in control. Given the same circumstances, all individuals would act in exactly the same way. Of course, "the circumstances" include a lot of hard-to-describe factors, like the mental model of an individual, as it was created during their life so far. Naturally, this point of view attracts a lot of criticism, most of all from pe…
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#86That we are all part of a macro-organism. we all act as parts of the body and the more we organise the more we collectively grow. populations that are decimated lose massive amounts of knowledge and only increase in numbers increases the complexity of the technology. in a lot of ways we act like cells in the human body. nothing tells them to be what they are, they find an opening and fill the role required of them. t…
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#871) Destiny exists: events of our life are pre-determined 2) There is life after death to transit and prepare before your next reincarnation
Re: Ask HN: What do you believe that most people don't?
#88That you don't need to eat three or four meals a day. You can compress all the meals into one and still stay productive, energetic & healthy. ( Speaking from 2+ years experience of daily fasting and strength training )
All in all, just do what feels right for you.