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As a developer I can understand this point of view, but as a consumer I say it's time to grow up. Internet startups have taken a "move fast and break things" approach that is analogous to early industrial revolution approaches to worker safety, product efficacy and safety, and environmental protection. You're working in the real world, with real consequences if you end up exposing people's personal data. The party is…
I agree that exposing personal data is serious, and companies should be held responsible if they violate the terms of their privacy policy. I think companies should follow the law of the land. The thing about GDPR that I disagree with is how it aims to have global jurisdiction. If it was a US law (as a US-based developer), perhaps I'd protest it, but I'd still follow it if I wanted to work in software.
So if you "sell" to EU residents, follow EU's rules.