It’s about time Intel offers consumers ECC RAM support.
ECC wont help, you need row access counters(target row refresh/TRR) directly in ram chips, or in memory controller. With switch to DDR4 JEDEC had a chance of standardizing those mitigations, but that would cost additional cents per chip, cant have that!
I'm skeptical that "ECC won't help," that's not a commonly held opinion. It might be true but it'd be interesting to read some actual analysis as to why.